"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to handle this situation?

Zeus

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Hey guys, doing good now with the ladys. I picked up a girl at my gym and we went out, had a good time. Now heres the deal, we talked about releationships and she said that she have "problems" getting to emotional attached to a guy, like its a trust issue. Cause when she was 16 somebody tried to rape her, but lucky nothing happend she run away. But still today when shes 25, she think about it. Now she realized that she have a problem, and want to solve it.

So whats your tip, i dont want to ruin things by being to much forward doing kino, going for the kiss. The usual stuff, she may think i just want to bang her and that it. So whats the game plan? Hehe
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Skel

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But you do want to bang her so dont change your game plan. Go for the throat! If she has mental or emotional problems, move on. Not worth your time.
 

Zeus

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enough said, going for the kill then.
 

Lust

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Zeus said:
enough said, going for the kill then.
Yeah go son, and don't think twice.

I think if you run a tight game, she'll be emotionally attached to you whether she wants to be or not.
 

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If this b!tch is whacky enough to admit she's emotionally fvcked up imagine for a moment what she hasn't admitted to . . .

Fvck her in the butt and then broom her off.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Suggest to her that she should rape you. That way she is in control.
 

Lust

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Poll said:
Suggest to her that she should rape you. That way she is in control.
Here comes the smartass.

Every reply you have posted is completely useless. This forum is full of people posting useless junk like yours.

Be constructive, why don't you go ask a girl to rape you and tell me how it goes?
 

Aaron B

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Why were you discussing relationships so early?

Now you think you have found a "problem" and you want to "fix it."

Typical male behavior that doesn't work. She is a big girl, she doesn't need you to fix her problems.

Maybe she has rape fantasies, who knows? Maybe this never happened.

Actions, not words. Focus on what you want, and if she goes along with your program, maybe you can spend some time together. Otherwise, try not to listen too much to her words, but closely watch her actions.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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