"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Okay these girls are just going crazy over me. But man, dang! Okay I know about two days ago I made a thread about how to reject girls. Well okay, there's another girl that likes me but this one is a good friend. We've been friends for about 6 months. But I didn't expect this. It is a very arkward situation. Just tell me in details what I should do. Here's the story, bare with me.....


So I decided to start asking me female friends for their numbers (so I can meet their 'hot' friends:) ) So this past Wednesday I walk to one of them. And start talking to her. Lets call her 'M-girl' Then I ask her for her number (this was a mistake, I'll tell why later...) So she gives me her house # and I split. Now note that this is just a friend. I know alot of you guys have female friends #'s in your phone. Anyways....


M-girl lives with my really good friend#1 who is in college. (They let her move in last summer) My good friend#2 had a B-Day at good friend's#1 house. It was about 13 of us down there in his basement. We were down there then one of M-girls friends comes to me and says. "Do you know somebody in here likes you?" I knew it was M-Girl. Then I said "We'll alot of ppl likes me. I'm a likeable guy" in a CF way. I did this to try and change the subject. Then I knew it at that moment.......I'm Gonna have reject ANOTHER girl. She laughs, stops and says "no, seriously". "You know she likes you right?" I try to act like I didn't know who she was talking about and said "Who's she?". She goes "Whatever rkc09" and she changes the subject.


Then M-girl kept asking me questions ALL NIGHT LONG like "how old are you?", "what grade are you in?" etc. And she kept asking me for my phone. She kept calling me over to sit by her. Here's the problem I only like her as a friend and I think I may have accidently lead her on by asking for her #. Were friends and I don't want things to get arkward when I reject her. Here's the thing, I just rejected 2 girls this week and those didn't bother me cuz I hardly knew one and the other one just said she was interested in me and I told her straight up, "lets just be friends".


But M-girl seriously has a crush on me. And hate to reject girls. I feel sorry for them and I don't like to break girls hearts. Call me a punk but thats just real talk. I don't know how to handle this situation. I have the feeling that ALL of her friends know that she likes me and they're my friends too and if I turn her down I'll look like the bad guy. Listen can anybody tell me the right way to handle this problem.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You need to find a way to let her down easy.

If she flips out and then tries to bad mouth you to everyone keep your cool and when and if people ask you about it just say that you weren't interested in her, your sorry that her feelings are hurt and thats the end of it. Don't let people try to draw more drama out of you after that. Answer short and to the point and move on.

If her friends find you to be a jerk thats good news as women love this kind of a jerk so long as you keep your cool about things even if she tries to bad mouth you.

Don't give in and give her a relationship with you just to avoid hurting her feelings.

That is not fair to either of you but it is especially not fair to you.

You are to be your first priority in life and that is some real talk from me to you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Okay. I can't think of a 'easy' to let her down. Overall I thought of three options.....

1.Just call her and tell her over the phone.

2.Tell her face to face.

3.Act like a AFC (only around her)

Which one of these is the best way to go. If none of these are good then tell me how I should do it. Which one of these would be the EASIEST way to let her down....

btw, by 'easiest' I mean which would be less painful for her...
 
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2.Tell her face to face.

That in my opinion is the best decision you can make. Keep in mind it will most likely hurt her but you have to move on with your life. I told 2 girls what pook had on the bible which was something along the lines of "Your just not woman enought for me." Now I don't recommend you say that (since it may destroy her) but thats about as direct as you can get.
 
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