"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Okay these girls are just going crazy over me. But man, dang! Okay I know about two days ago I made a thread about how to reject girls. Well okay, there's another girl that likes me but this one is a good friend. We've been friends for about 6 months. But I didn't expect this. It is a very arkward situation. Just tell me in details what I should do. Here's the story, bare with me.....


So I decided to start asking me female friends for their numbers (so I can meet their 'hot' friends:) ) So this past Wednesday I walk to one of them. And start talking to her. Lets call her 'M-girl' Then I ask her for her number (this was a mistake, I'll tell why later...) So she gives me her house # and I split. Now note that this is just a friend. I know alot of you guys have female friends #'s in your phone. Anyways....


M-girl lives with my really good friend#1 who is in college. (They let her move in last summer) My good friend#2 had a B-Day at good friend's#1 house. It was about 13 of us down there in his basement. We were down there then one of M-girls friends comes to me and says. "Do you know somebody in here likes you?" I knew it was M-Girl. Then I said "We'll alot of ppl likes me. I'm a likeable guy" in a CF way. I did this to try and change the subject. Then I knew it at that moment.......I'm Gonna have reject ANOTHER girl. She laughs, stops and says "no, seriously". "You know she likes you right?" I try to act like I didn't know who she was talking about and said "Who's she?". She goes "Whatever rkc09" and she changes the subject.


Then M-girl kept asking me questions ALL NIGHT LONG like "how old are you?", "what grade are you in?" etc. And she kept asking me for my phone. She kept calling me over to sit by her. Here's the problem I only like her as a friend and I think I may have accidently lead her on by asking for her #. Were friends and I don't want things to get arkward when I reject her. Here's the thing, I just rejected 2 girls this week and those didn't bother me cuz I hardly knew one and the other one just said she was interested in me and I told her straight up, "lets just be friends".


But M-girl seriously has a crush on me. And hate to reject girls. I feel sorry for them and I don't like to break girls hearts. Call me a punk but thats just real talk. I don't know how to handle this situation. I have the feeling that ALL of her friends know that she likes me and they're my friends too and if I turn her down I'll look like the bad guy. Listen can anybody tell me the right way to handle this problem.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You need to find a way to let her down easy.

If she flips out and then tries to bad mouth you to everyone keep your cool and when and if people ask you about it just say that you weren't interested in her, your sorry that her feelings are hurt and thats the end of it. Don't let people try to draw more drama out of you after that. Answer short and to the point and move on.

If her friends find you to be a jerk thats good news as women love this kind of a jerk so long as you keep your cool about things even if she tries to bad mouth you.

Don't give in and give her a relationship with you just to avoid hurting her feelings.

That is not fair to either of you but it is especially not fair to you.

You are to be your first priority in life and that is some real talk from me to you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Okay. I can't think of a 'easy' to let her down. Overall I thought of three options.....

1.Just call her and tell her over the phone.

2.Tell her face to face.

3.Act like a AFC (only around her)

Which one of these is the best way to go. If none of these are good then tell me how I should do it. Which one of these would be the EASIEST way to let her down....

btw, by 'easiest' I mean which would be less painful for her...
 
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2.Tell her face to face.

That in my opinion is the best decision you can make. Keep in mind it will most likely hurt her but you have to move on with your life. I told 2 girls what pook had on the bible which was something along the lines of "Your just not woman enought for me." Now I don't recommend you say that (since it may destroy her) but thats about as direct as you can get.
 
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