How to handle this? gf doesnt want to have sex anymore

[sebastian11]

we recently had a little bit of a pregnancy scare and now she doesnt want to have sex again until shes married. shes totally against abortion so like it kind of makes sense but how do i handle this situation without coming off as an ass who is only out for sex?

 

[catman]

Dont push the issue and dont get married just so you can have sex again whatever you do. If the old girl wants sex she will let you know if not NEXT This is something that often happens with a preg scare but women like sex just like men do only not as often.

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

She's probably freaked out and being overdramatic. Her "no sex" rule will last about a week.

 

[schttrj]

don't push her. just arouse her enough.

 

[Ease]

Piitb.

 

[Dante420]

She's probably freaked out and being overdramatic. Her "no sex" rule will last about a week.

either this or she's testing you, if not its over.

start looking for something else and start looking to end things on a good note

 

[Leporello]

Haven't you ever heard of the Pill? 99.9% effective.

 

[Commandante]

Haven't you ever heard of the Pill? 99.9% effective.

100% effective. 0.1% forgot to take the pill, but is lying about it.

 

[sebastian11]

She won't go on the pill because she doesn't want to have to talk to her mom about it. Is there an easy way to get the pill?

 

[Pathgen]

If you are a minor (under eighteen years), and you live in the United States, you have rights to confidential reproductive health care. What this means is that unless you consent or give permission to your health care provider, s/he cannot disclose your medical records to anyone, including your parents (except in the case of abortion services, which depends on your particular state's law). Additionally, since no state or federal laws exist at the present time that would prevent minors from obtaining contraception, teens don't need parental consent or notification to get birth control pills, condoms, emergency contraception, and other contraceptive choices. According to The Center for Reproductive Rights, "Access to contraceptive services is considered a fundamental privacy right and has remained so for over three decades."

I am pretty sure you can go to planned parenthood and they will get you the pill without your parents. However, if she has given you sex before, she probably won't last long.

You may need to go to a physician to get the pill if planned parenthood doesn't have a service. If thats the case just pay in cash and it should all be confidential. Your tracks will be covered

Btw your not an ass for wanting sex. Your right if the only thing you wanted was sex, then you could be considered an ass. Don't be afraid to tell her that its an activity that you want to pursue before marriage and that you want to do it right. Which means getting the right kind of contraception.

 

[sebastian11]

Thank you very much, I'll look into all of that tomorrow