"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to handle this? gf doesnt want to have sex anymore

sebastian11

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we recently had a little bit of a pregnancy scare and now she doesnt want to have sex again until shes married. shes totally against abortion so like it kind of makes sense but how do i handle this situation without coming off as an ass who is only out for sex?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dont push the issue and dont get married just so you can have sex again whatever you do. If the old girl wants sex she will let you know if not NEXT:cool: This is something that often happens with a preg scare but women like sex just like men do only not as often.
 

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She's probably freaked out and being overdramatic. Her "no sex" rule will last about a week.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mantis Toboggan said:
She's probably freaked out and being overdramatic. Her "no sex" rule will last about a week.
either this or she's testing you, if not its over.

start looking for something else and start looking to end things on a good note
 

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Haven't you ever heard of the Pill? 99.9% effective.
 

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Leporello said:
Haven't you ever heard of the Pill? 99.9% effective.
100% effective. 0.1% forgot to take the pill, but is lying about it.
 

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She won't go on the pill because she doesn't want to have to talk to her mom about it. Is there an easy way to get the pill?
 

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If you are a minor (under eighteen years), and you live in the United States, you have rights to confidential reproductive health care. What this means is that unless you consent or give permission to your health care provider, s/he cannot disclose your medical records to anyone, including your parents (except in the case of abortion services, which depends on your particular state's law). Additionally, since no state or federal laws exist at the present time that would prevent minors from obtaining contraception, teens don't need parental consent or notification to get birth control pills, condoms, emergency contraception, and other contraceptive choices. According to The Center for Reproductive Rights, "Access to contraceptive services is considered a fundamental privacy right and has remained so for over three decades."

I am pretty sure you can go to planned parenthood and they will get you the pill without your parents. However, if she has given you sex before, she probably won't last long.

You may need to go to a physician to get the pill if planned parenthood doesn't have a service. If thats the case just pay in cash and it should all be confidential. Your tracks will be covered

Btw your not an ass for wanting sex. Your right if the only thing you wanted was sex, then you could be considered an ass. Don't be afraid to tell her that its an activity that you want to pursue before marriage and that you want to do it right. Which means getting the right kind of contraception.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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