Some guys are saying "giving her the 'D' is the only way to fix her." Not helpful advice. One of those girls: Jealous, disrespectful, stuck up. I never talk to her, but the attitude persists. Working overtime 6 days a week with the same person. I could spend my time trying to analyze her but she's just one of those neurotic, insecure women that is just lost. I don't react, avoid unneeded conversation, yet ignoring her isn't working and it's been months. How's a guy to put a woman like that in her place without looking like a douche?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How to handle the office attention *****/b*tch?
- Thread starter Borloff
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The fact you don't talk to her and her attitude persists indicates to me she has the power over you. You say she is jealous, disrespectful, stuck up, neurotic and insecure. That's a lot of accusations. I hope you are not projecting.
Anyway, just don't let it get to you. I doubt she is as bad as you say. The way you are explaining the situation puts you in the place of a victim.
All I can say is that you have to be swift with people like that. Nip it in the bud.
You say it's been months...
Plus you say you work with her 6 days a week without talkin gto her? You make all these accusations yet you say you don't try to analyse her?
It sounds to me she is just behaving that way because she can.
You should be ashamed of yourself for letting it get this far. I understand that you are now afraid to show to her that you have balls because the fact you didn't react sooner gave her the idea she was allowed to behave like that.
Just be calm and assertive man. Tell her you don't appreciate that kind of behavior.
I have 2 tips for you: read 'Way of The Superior Man by David Deida, and watch a lot of The Dog Whisperer.
Anyway, just don't let it get to you. I doubt she is as bad as you say. The way you are explaining the situation puts you in the place of a victim.
All I can say is that you have to be swift with people like that. Nip it in the bud.
You say it's been months...
Plus you say you work with her 6 days a week without talkin gto her? You make all these accusations yet you say you don't try to analyse her?
It sounds to me she is just behaving that way because she can.
You should be ashamed of yourself for letting it get this far. I understand that you are now afraid to show to her that you have balls because the fact you didn't react sooner gave her the idea she was allowed to behave like that.
Just be calm and assertive man. Tell her you don't appreciate that kind of behavior.
I have 2 tips for you: read 'Way of The Superior Man by David Deida, and watch a lot of The Dog Whisperer.