"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how to handle sh!t talkers

aix237

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for some reason i have quite a good amount of people that talk sh!t about me. its usually people that i normally would not hang out with on a regular basis (different interest, humor, likes in girls etc.). I know a good amount of people (meeting through mutual people etc.) i get along with people that have similar interest music, girls, etc.Im a materialistic kid so the usual people are the ones that are "old fashion." So what im into myself a little bit. I try to build my self up and things around me so get to where i want to be. I guess these fvcks are jealous or something. yea i admit people blow up my head sometimes so its only natural to get ****y. i feel good aobut myself and most of my life and these people try to get in there and fvck it up cause theyre not happy with theirs

They talk about me for the fvckin dumbest reasons people include my brother, my so called "friend/s" and girls i dont even fvcking know or have not even spit one word about them. basically my chances with some chicks where i live are basically not there anymore cause these fa g s keep on saying the wrong sh!t. I try to come to conclusions as to why these people talk sh!t.

Lets first off say i dont really talk about anyone or bad mouth them not negative towards anyone unless done onto me. My older brother talks sh!t about me cause i have a lot of confidence/****yness which he lacks, drive a better car and im going to get a masters degree. he says "i need to cut you down" basically bring me down to his "level." hes never had a real gf and probalby hates his job.

My use to be good friend talks about me to my face, to my brother, and his gf which knows a sh!t load of girls around here and she obviously tells them cause ive heard that so and so said your this and that. i was like ive never said one word to that girl. the sh!t about me spreads like wildfire.

The girls that talk sh!t aobut me do it cause i act really ****y around them and they feel hurt or soemthing that i dont put them on a pedestool and try to game them cause they are attracted to me (its the truth). It fvcks up my game and it helps me i guess. ive had girls talk so much sh!t about me and the next thing i know im in their bed. its funny. well i guess the girls that dont know any mutual people i know them talking sh!t about me being ****y etc. is ok. but the ones that know mutual people thats a different story. ive gotten like the look of evil from some girls at gatherings im like wtf.

Before i was like oh well eveyrone talks about everyone ill let it go. now its getting to the point that im going to start cutting people out of my life for good. my best friend from college and my brother have an alliance or proproganda war against me. my "friend" is basically cut off now cause fvck that he says way too much sh!t thats untrue when he needs to look at himself. my brother and i live together i barley talk to him now cuase im sick of his sh!t too. the girls thats a different story i guess. guess its good that they just talk sh!t about my ****yness but anything else theyre gone.

Any other way to handle this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Phyzzle

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What are they saying?

Are they saying you are too ****y?

Maybe from their point of view, they're telling the truth.
 

aix237

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Heres what they say
Brother - arrogant, spoiled, cheap (only with people i dont give a fvck about), scrub (cause i havent worked in a couple of months was trying to get back on my feet after my ltr ended and had to move and getting my sh!t together to apply to get a masters degree) fvck my brother even told this girl that he was talking too (i also know her and she knows a lot of girls also that i go on this website. i was like wtf would you say that when it was out of context of the convo.

So called friend my brother and he sit down and have full blown conversations about me so basically the same things as my brother

Girls - ****y, stuck up, d1ckhead (but thats good in a way)

the bottom line is its not so much what they say that bugs me its that there saying something period. girls always say that and thats good so not them but the people that get into other sh!t about my life is what bugs me and have the need to tell other poeple.

I am spoiled but im getting better. the people that dont have a problem with me are also spoiled. haha i know stupid. but i want to be 100% independent soon. so in a nut shell people just envy me in a way and im not saying it as being ****y its just the truth. people like that talk sh!t. my brother wishes he could have as much ****y/confidence as me. my friend wishes his parents helped him out. girls wish they could fvck atleast intially. Thats the honest truth. those are the most logical reasons i can come up with.
I guess hated my many loved by few.
 

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There are two very different types of AlphaMales, the ****y and Funny type that becomes the punching inflatable clown for the angry AFC's types of guys and the straight down the line man's man, who is more aloof, indifferent, but never comes under any real attack from the angry AFC males because they are too frightened to fu-ck around with him, that is just the way it is, the AlphaMale who is the easiest target and seems weaker will always be the ones that the AFC's stir up. :yes:
 

aix237

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so im an alpha male that is an inflatable clown?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KoalaKing

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Read my "Brodie v Mick" thread that I am going to post in the next few minutes and it will give you the clearer picture of how two vastly different guys have become AlphaMales, yet one is respected by AFC's yet the other is constantly being brought down by them due to their vast difference's in personality and temperament. :up:
 
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