Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how to handle sh!t talkers

aix237

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for some reason i have quite a good amount of people that talk sh!t about me. its usually people that i normally would not hang out with on a regular basis (different interest, humor, likes in girls etc.). I know a good amount of people (meeting through mutual people etc.) i get along with people that have similar interest music, girls, etc.Im a materialistic kid so the usual people are the ones that are "old fashion." So what im into myself a little bit. I try to build my self up and things around me so get to where i want to be. I guess these fvcks are jealous or something. yea i admit people blow up my head sometimes so its only natural to get ****y. i feel good aobut myself and most of my life and these people try to get in there and fvck it up cause theyre not happy with theirs

They talk about me for the fvckin dumbest reasons people include my brother, my so called "friend/s" and girls i dont even fvcking know or have not even spit one word about them. basically my chances with some chicks where i live are basically not there anymore cause these fa g s keep on saying the wrong sh!t. I try to come to conclusions as to why these people talk sh!t.

Lets first off say i dont really talk about anyone or bad mouth them not negative towards anyone unless done onto me. My older brother talks sh!t about me cause i have a lot of confidence/****yness which he lacks, drive a better car and im going to get a masters degree. he says "i need to cut you down" basically bring me down to his "level." hes never had a real gf and probalby hates his job.

My use to be good friend talks about me to my face, to my brother, and his gf which knows a sh!t load of girls around here and she obviously tells them cause ive heard that so and so said your this and that. i was like ive never said one word to that girl. the sh!t about me spreads like wildfire.

The girls that talk sh!t aobut me do it cause i act really ****y around them and they feel hurt or soemthing that i dont put them on a pedestool and try to game them cause they are attracted to me (its the truth). It fvcks up my game and it helps me i guess. ive had girls talk so much sh!t about me and the next thing i know im in their bed. its funny. well i guess the girls that dont know any mutual people i know them talking sh!t about me being ****y etc. is ok. but the ones that know mutual people thats a different story. ive gotten like the look of evil from some girls at gatherings im like wtf.

Before i was like oh well eveyrone talks about everyone ill let it go. now its getting to the point that im going to start cutting people out of my life for good. my best friend from college and my brother have an alliance or proproganda war against me. my "friend" is basically cut off now cause fvck that he says way too much sh!t thats untrue when he needs to look at himself. my brother and i live together i barley talk to him now cuase im sick of his sh!t too. the girls thats a different story i guess. guess its good that they just talk sh!t about my ****yness but anything else theyre gone.

Any other way to handle this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Phyzzle

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What are they saying?

Are they saying you are too ****y?

Maybe from their point of view, they're telling the truth.
 

aix237

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Heres what they say
Brother - arrogant, spoiled, cheap (only with people i dont give a fvck about), scrub (cause i havent worked in a couple of months was trying to get back on my feet after my ltr ended and had to move and getting my sh!t together to apply to get a masters degree) fvck my brother even told this girl that he was talking too (i also know her and she knows a lot of girls also that i go on this website. i was like wtf would you say that when it was out of context of the convo.

So called friend my brother and he sit down and have full blown conversations about me so basically the same things as my brother

Girls - ****y, stuck up, d1ckhead (but thats good in a way)

the bottom line is its not so much what they say that bugs me its that there saying something period. girls always say that and thats good so not them but the people that get into other sh!t about my life is what bugs me and have the need to tell other poeple.

I am spoiled but im getting better. the people that dont have a problem with me are also spoiled. haha i know stupid. but i want to be 100% independent soon. so in a nut shell people just envy me in a way and im not saying it as being ****y its just the truth. people like that talk sh!t. my brother wishes he could have as much ****y/confidence as me. my friend wishes his parents helped him out. girls wish they could fvck atleast intially. Thats the honest truth. those are the most logical reasons i can come up with.
I guess hated my many loved by few.
 

KoalaKing

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There are two very different types of AlphaMales, the ****y and Funny type that becomes the punching inflatable clown for the angry AFC's types of guys and the straight down the line man's man, who is more aloof, indifferent, but never comes under any real attack from the angry AFC males because they are too frightened to fu-ck around with him, that is just the way it is, the AlphaMale who is the easiest target and seems weaker will always be the ones that the AFC's stir up. :yes:
 

aix237

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so im an alpha male that is an inflatable clown?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KoalaKing

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Read my "Brodie v Mick" thread that I am going to post in the next few minutes and it will give you the clearer picture of how two vastly different guys have become AlphaMales, yet one is respected by AFC's yet the other is constantly being brought down by them due to their vast difference's in personality and temperament. :up:
 
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