"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how to handle IOI's like an alpha male

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always assume a womans attraction level is 2 points lower than what she is signalling. if it seems shes a 9/10 interest level, assume its really a 6. if shes texting you 'hey baby i really miss you' at 2am on a friday, dont assume this is a 10/10 sign to invite her over. assume its a 6/10.
if youve just had sex with her for the first time, you instantly think she is sold on you. be a little more cynical and assume she is just warming up.

what happens is most men overreact to IOI's and this subtly turns women off. for example, they instantly invite a girl over or for a drink when they get some positive feedback or a text out the blue from her.

by dampening the signals shes sending; you will come across as more of a challenge and someone who is not easily moved and centered. you will also move things at a slower pace, and take a little longer to respond to her interest, spend more time building rapport and screening, which will raise her interest more.

batting her eyelids and smiling will move most beta men to get 'excited'... however she will throw herself at an alpha and only get a 'hey; how was your weekend?'/small talk response instead
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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