SmoothSmooth
Master Don Juan
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always assume a womans attraction level is 2 points lower than what she is signalling. if it seems shes a 9/10 interest level, assume its really a 6. if shes texting you 'hey baby i really miss you' at 2am on a friday, dont assume this is a 10/10 sign to invite her over. assume its a 6/10.
if youve just had sex with her for the first time, you instantly think she is sold on you. be a little more cynical and assume she is just warming up.
what happens is most men overreact to IOI's and this subtly turns women off. for example, they instantly invite a girl over or for a drink when they get some positive feedback or a text out the blue from her.
by dampening the signals shes sending; you will come across as more of a challenge and someone who is not easily moved and centered. you will also move things at a slower pace, and take a little longer to respond to her interest, spend more time building rapport and screening, which will raise her interest more.
batting her eyelids and smiling will move most beta men to get 'excited'... however she will throw herself at an alpha and only get a 'hey; how was your weekend?'/small talk response instead
if youve just had sex with her for the first time, you instantly think she is sold on you. be a little more cynical and assume she is just warming up.
what happens is most men overreact to IOI's and this subtly turns women off. for example, they instantly invite a girl over or for a drink when they get some positive feedback or a text out the blue from her.
by dampening the signals shes sending; you will come across as more of a challenge and someone who is not easily moved and centered. you will also move things at a slower pace, and take a little longer to respond to her interest, spend more time building rapport and screening, which will raise her interest more.
batting her eyelids and smiling will move most beta men to get 'excited'... however she will throw herself at an alpha and only get a 'hey; how was your weekend?'/small talk response instead
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