Hi fellas, like most of you, I am a nice guy trying to get out of the cycle of being rejected and used. Have you guys ever seen a hot girl, and you've felt like you couldn't handle her? I have read/am reading the DJ Bible and Weapons of Mass Seduction, but I feel they haven't touched enough on the moment when a woman tries to assert control. I guess pretty women(and even the not so pretty ones) are taught or learn how to manipulate guys at an early age using their cuteness or prettiness. What do you guys think of to block their control? I myself, feel like the prettier a woman is, the more wild she's likely to be. I don't know if i could keep playing the ****y and funny game day in and day out with the same chick... maybe the key is to not spend as much time with the girl? To keep a sense of mystery to myself that is. What are your thoughts on this issue?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How to handle a hot girl?
- Thread starter xsonik
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Wear oven mittens!!!
There is no such thing as a 'hot' girl - just a girl!!
DiSt0rTi0n_07
Don Juan
LOL, well it might draw some attention to yaWear oven mittens!!!
EXACTLY!!!!!
How about not letting her control you? Do you have self respect? Well don't give it to her, it belongs to you! You don't want a controlling girl. Put her in her place.
lmfao!!! Still thinking about them over mittens. Wearing oven mittens might make for some good C+F tho...
*walks up to HB10*
"I'm looking for some hot women, nobody else in the mall is equipped to handle them. If you see some let me know so I can go test me mittens
"MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Treat her like you would treat a girl who isn't hot.