"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how to handle a girl that is b1tchy

rocco

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Let's say that you got an initial attraction from her.. and you got her #. Now you are well on your way towards seducing her.

But then she starts acting b1tchy over the phone, perhaps as a way to sh1t test you. Like for example, "I don't like this, I don't like that.. She takes offence from the very little things, Like she's on her period." She thinks she can get away with it, because she knows you want to have sex with her.

how do you break down this b1tch shield wall? So that you can still have sex (and/or have a meaningful relationship) with her and all is well.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BCOMusic

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I would tell her what's up and that her complaining is annoying and she comes off as a negative nancy.

You won't have a meaningful relationship with her though thats for sure.

She WILL NOT change, SHE WILL GET WORSE.
 

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Easy. Next time shes bichy you calmly say in a calm voice "(pause) You know what? I have a problem with you acting like this, and I don't thing were a good match. Good bye."

Man, don't you know you deserve better? Don't settle for something annoying. Now go find yourself someone with a good attitude.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Monkey

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rocco said:
how do you break down this b1tch shield wall? So that you can still have sex (and/or have a meaningful relationship) with her and all is well.

Theres no 'wall' to break down - thats who she IS.

You can't 'break' girls, 'save' girls, 'change' girls its simply not worth the effort and wasted time.

Some of you guys really need to start respecting yourselves more - don't put up with crappy behaviour EVER.
 

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these type of girls don't like men...they go for younger guys as they have total control.
 

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Meet lots of girls, that way you have lots of fbs and don't "need" sex from her. That'll make u not care about what she does. I'd personally just have fun it with, and make fun of her. And every thing she says she doesn't like i'd let her know i like it and do it, just for pure self entertainment.
 

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yeah i'm with effort on this one, for some reason if you focus on getting more girls, the girl/s you already have will fall into line much more easily
 
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