"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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how to handle a girl that is b1tchy

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Let's say that you got an initial attraction from her.. and you got her #. Now you are well on your way towards seducing her.

But then she starts acting b1tchy over the phone, perhaps as a way to sh1t test you. Like for example, "I don't like this, I don't like that.. She takes offence from the very little things, Like she's on her period." She thinks she can get away with it, because she knows you want to have sex with her.

how do you break down this b1tch shield wall? So that you can still have sex (and/or have a meaningful relationship) with her and all is well.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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I would tell her what's up and that her complaining is annoying and she comes off as a negative nancy.

You won't have a meaningful relationship with her though thats for sure.

She WILL NOT change, SHE WILL GET WORSE.
 
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Easy. Next time shes bichy you calmly say in a calm voice "(pause) You know what? I have a problem with you acting like this, and I don't thing were a good match. Good bye."

Man, don't you know you deserve better? Don't settle for something annoying. Now go find yourself someone with a good attitude.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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rocco said:
how do you break down this b1tch shield wall? So that you can still have sex (and/or have a meaningful relationship) with her and all is well.
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Theres no 'wall' to break down - thats who she IS.

You can't 'break' girls, 'save' girls, 'change' girls its simply not worth the effort and wasted time.

Some of you guys really need to start respecting yourselves more - don't put up with crappy behaviour EVER.
 
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these type of girls don't like men...they go for younger guys as they have total control.
 
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Meet lots of girls, that way you have lots of fbs and don't "need" sex from her. That'll make u not care about what she does. I'd personally just have fun it with, and make fun of her. And every thing she says she doesn't like i'd let her know i like it and do it, just for pure self entertainment.
 
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yeah i'm with effort on this one, for some reason if you focus on getting more girls, the girl/s you already have will fall into line much more easily
 
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