Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
Hello boys and girls.
Every now and then when you log onto this website you come across a dude asking on how to deal with this particular girl, that flaked on him. This said dude, decides to make a post, because he has this idea in his head that with said girl or situation, general rules somehow do not apply.
In his post, he goes over minimal detaling. Every coma, an extra "o" the girl added in "soorry", the time his message was sent. Everything. He puts all there, and in most cases, his desperation is so grand that he even forget to use paragraphs, leaving a Huge Wall of boring text to be deciphred.
And then lots of guys come over and give their 2 cents about it! Some say go NC, some say call the b*tch out, some say it is a valid excuse and you should give another chance. Whatever. There is never one right answer, and the dude is left out there, with a sh*tload amount of answers, when things supposed to be way simpler.
I'm guilty myself of asking about how to deal with an specific flake. Twice! It was not as dramatic as I've putted in the previous paragraph, but I was searching for help in my particular situation, because, somewhat, I though I was different...
So with that said, I decided to create this, in order to open everyone's eyes.
It is so stupid, that I don't even know if it can be called a guide.
It is more like an experience, to be tested, proved, and used.
Some time ago, while my eyes were still sore, I've read somewhere the simplest, yet greatest tip on how to handle a flake. I've chose to ignore it, because I was still trying to believe otherwise. Now, some 6 months after reading it, I'm putting it down, in the form of steps, just for you to see how simple it is.
Step 1:
Arrange a date with a girl. (aka. ask a girl out for day 2,3,4 etc...)
Step 2:
When the day of the date comes, Flake the girl!
Step 3:
Watch her reaction!
Step 4:
Learn and copy!!
You might be thinking... That's it?
Yes sir, that is it. As you will see and hopefully learn, whatever your excuse may be, her reaction would be something like this "Ok, no worries
"
Guess what? It haven't ruinned her day. So it should not ruin yours.
So please, don't ever make a big deal about it again!
When the next chick flake on you, don't try to get a reaction, don't try to punish her, don't try nothing. There is nothing to be done.
You say, "Ok, no worries"...
...and then you go and you SPIN SOME F*CKING PLATES!
Whatever happens next, it's not up to you anymore. You just take the flake and leave.
Conclusion:
The only flake you should be worrying about from now on, is the one you pour milk in the morning, and eat in a bowl!
TIP: To see said reaction, it works best if you flake on a girl you know won't flake on you first, which means, a girl who has a High Interest Level on you. After all, you get only upset with flakes from girls YOU have High Interest Level on!
Every now and then when you log onto this website you come across a dude asking on how to deal with this particular girl, that flaked on him. This said dude, decides to make a post, because he has this idea in his head that with said girl or situation, general rules somehow do not apply.
In his post, he goes over minimal detaling. Every coma, an extra "o" the girl added in "soorry", the time his message was sent. Everything. He puts all there, and in most cases, his desperation is so grand that he even forget to use paragraphs, leaving a Huge Wall of boring text to be deciphred.
And then lots of guys come over and give their 2 cents about it! Some say go NC, some say call the b*tch out, some say it is a valid excuse and you should give another chance. Whatever. There is never one right answer, and the dude is left out there, with a sh*tload amount of answers, when things supposed to be way simpler.
I'm guilty myself of asking about how to deal with an specific flake. Twice! It was not as dramatic as I've putted in the previous paragraph, but I was searching for help in my particular situation, because, somewhat, I though I was different...
So with that said, I decided to create this, in order to open everyone's eyes.
It is so stupid, that I don't even know if it can be called a guide.
It is more like an experience, to be tested, proved, and used.
Some time ago, while my eyes were still sore, I've read somewhere the simplest, yet greatest tip on how to handle a flake. I've chose to ignore it, because I was still trying to believe otherwise. Now, some 6 months after reading it, I'm putting it down, in the form of steps, just for you to see how simple it is.
Step 1:
Arrange a date with a girl. (aka. ask a girl out for day 2,3,4 etc...)
Step 2:
When the day of the date comes, Flake the girl!
Step 3:
Watch her reaction!
Step 4:
Learn and copy!!
You might be thinking... That's it?
Yes sir, that is it. As you will see and hopefully learn, whatever your excuse may be, her reaction would be something like this "Ok, no worries
"Guess what? It haven't ruinned her day. So it should not ruin yours.
So please, don't ever make a big deal about it again!
When the next chick flake on you, don't try to get a reaction, don't try to punish her, don't try nothing. There is nothing to be done.
You say, "Ok, no worries"...
...and then you go and you SPIN SOME F*CKING PLATES!
Whatever happens next, it's not up to you anymore. You just take the flake and leave.
Conclusion:
The only flake you should be worrying about from now on, is the one you pour milk in the morning, and eat in a bowl!
TIP: To see said reaction, it works best if you flake on a girl you know won't flake on you first, which means, a girl who has a High Interest Level on you. After all, you get only upset with flakes from girls YOU have High Interest Level on!
