Scars
Master Don Juan
Man, it was so much easier in my younger days... if a ***** did me wrong, I just went NC immediately, and I was over it within a week or so... but with my baby mama I am forced to stay in contact with her because of the daughter we have together. I've been pretty good for the most, only keeping the conversations strictly around our daughter, never about "us", however I did slip up one night when I was drunk and she texted me and I ended up banging her (the got the clap, yay)... I really wish I could just NC for good. I'm in no position to take on my daughter full time, our joint custody arrangement is fine... but I am literally forced to talk to her and see her anytime I want to see my daughter. How do I got about this NC guys? What's even worse is when she calls my phone then immediately hands it to my 3 year old and starts talking wanting to come over, which is fine, but then I find out she is going out partying and being a ho.... I love my daughter, and I shouldn't care what my ex is doing... but the whole "watch my kid so I can go be a slut" thing just doesn't sit well with me... maybe there is still feelings there, and I am slightly jealous.. which is why I really need to go NC, but it's not %100 NC, and I believe it's why feelings are still there, and why I slipped up... I just don't know what to do. I wish there was an "off switch" in my brain. I mean, we keep the meetings casual, about the kids, and all that... but I am literally forced to see her and it just brings up a range of emotions at times I can't control.
For all the mature guys here with kids who are forced to see their exes, how do you deal?
Thanks
For all the mature guys here with kids who are forced to see their exes, how do you deal?
Thanks