How to go about this?

[captain55]

I randomly messaged this fine chick on Instagram that looked familiar. Turns out i actually talked to her at the gym before and she said she remembers me (even though I don’t lol)

We spent a couple days messaging back and forth. She asked me things about myself that showed she was at least somewhat interested. My plans, my age, questions about my career and goals etc. i was flirting around with her a bit and she was cool but i took it a little bit too far. She still kept talking to me but she goes

“We all know what you want out of this” implying that i just want to bang her. I made a comment about her ass in yoga pants. Now, she Still kept talking to me and joking around but when i asked her out no response.

Did i **** it up? I’m thinking my best choice might be to leave it alone and run into her at the gym and try and game her..

 

[captain55]

also this chick is a 9. Haven’t wanted a girl this bad in a long time, only reason I’m making a thread. Normally i wouldn’t bother

 

[Von]

If you are asking her out and she ain't giving a Yes.... but still chat... it means she wants the attention. She likes you for attentions but will not go out with you. NEXT

You might have had a chance at ''we all know what you want out of this'' but from what you wrote... you are orbiting her now.

 

[wifehunter]

Just send her pics of the wang already!!!

 

[marmel75]

also this chick is a 9. Haven’t wanted a girl this bad in a long time, only reason I’m making a thread. Normally i wouldn’t bother

You are already starting to act desperate and you haven't even been on a date with her. Dude...cmon. Haven't you learned anything from your previous posts?

 

[TheGambino]

You got nothing bro, just another orbiter. Quit talking to here right now and flirt with her when you randomly see her, if she flirts back you try again to ask her out at the spot, if she says anything other then yes you move on, period. Goodluck.

 

[PokerStar]

tell her you know of a great place that has the best tacos in the city. no girls can resist tacos.

 

[Glassguy]

Withdraw attention and do not ask her out again. I agree with only responding with one or two word responses to get your point across that you're losing interest at a light speed rate.

She will either see that you arent taking the attention bait anymore or she will revert to asking you out.

Let it be and see how she responds.

 

[captain55]

Withdraw attention and do not ask her out again. I agree with only responding with one or two word responses to get your point across that you're losing interest at a light speed rate.

She will either see that you arent taking the attention bait anymore or she will revert to asking you out.

Let it be and see how she responds.

She responded to me but kept talking about random stuff. I didn’t respond to her last few messages so we will see what happens. Her only choice is to hit me up now

 

[captain55]

You got nothing bro, just another orbiter. Quit talking to here right now and flirt with her when you randomly see her, if she flirts back you try again to ask her out at the spot, if she says anything other then yes you move on, period. Goodluck.

Bro did you read my post? Everything she asks is about me 80% of the time. Not like im sitting there stroking her ego giving her compliments. She’s doing everything to let me know she’s interested i just don’t know why she won’t agree to a date yet. Asking me about my career, if i still talk to my ex, my age, my plans, etc..

 

[derby1]

you not listening to the advice above....IF you initiate any kind of message with this woman again you may aswell serve ya balls up on a burger bap...

SHE will most likely contact you to check your still in her orbit...........reply with limited convo and shell melt shes an Attention *****

its **** OP ive been there loads cant this woman see she is wasting her own time by messaging you not just yours, and all your offering to do is take the woman out for a good evening

 

[derby1]

you know when YOUR BORED and you do mundane **** your her mundane ****, or shed be jumping at your door within 5 messages

 

[Macaframalama]

I randomly messaged this fine chick on Instagram that looked familiar. Turns out i actually talked to her at the gym before and she said she remembers me (even though I don’t lol)

We spent a couple days messaging back and forth. She asked me things about myself that showed she was at least somewhat interested. My plans, my age, questions about my career and goals etc. i was flirting around with her a bit and she was cool but i took it a little bit too far. She still kept talking to me but she goes

“We all know what you want out of this” implying that i just want to bang her. I made a comment about her ass in yoga pants. Now, she Still kept talking to me and joking around but when i asked her out no response.

Did i **** it up? I’m thinking my best choice might be to leave it alone and run into her at the gym and try and game her..

When you flirted did she flirt back? What are your intentions? Let them be known. Personally, I prefer Ltr, but I'm not going to settle and I'm not going to deprive myself of sexual pleasure in the meantime. Told a woman I was dating a few weeks ago exactly this. She asked if I seen her as a potential long term partner, to which I said no. She ended up initiating sex right then and there and smashed.

 

[captain55]

When you flirted did she flirt back? What are your intentions? Let them be known. Personally, I prefer Ltr, but I'm not going to settle and I'm not going to deprive myself of sexual pleasure in the meantime. Told a woman I was dating a few weeks ago exactly this. She asked if I seen her as a potential long term partner, to which I said no. She ended up initiating sex right then and there and smashed.

Yes she flirted back. The fact that she remembered who i was when I had no clue i ever even spoke to her made me feel i at least made some impression on the girl.

I can tell she’s a high quality chick and has the same hobbies as me ....plus she’s local that’s why i want her....im not trying to get laid quick that’s what the club is for. Im not looking for that. Certain ethnic women in my experience take a while to put out...Armenian, Syrian women etc. white chicks and Spanish women all put out easy in my experience

 

[derby1]

I can tell she’s a high quality chick

you are a servant and she is lady matilda of flanders, and she knows it........william the conqueror would not have said that bollocks which is why she had 9 kids of his

 

[Macaframalama]

Yes she flirted back. The fact that she remembered who i was when I had no clue i ever even spoke to her made me feel i at least made some impression on the girl.

I can tell she’s a high quality chick and has the same hobbies as me ....plus she’s local that’s why i want her....im not trying to get laid quick that’s what the club is for. Im not looking for that. Certain ethnic women in my experience take a while to put out...Armenian, Syrian women etc. white chicks and Spanish women all put out easy in my experience

She may be a higher quality woman, but you're pedestalizing her it seems. You should have told her your intentions. I would have even playfully confirmed her assumptions that I would smack that ass too, if the circumstances were right. She already knows that she is desirable and men want to fvck her. Just be firm about your intentions. What she thinks "all you want out of this" is just a benefit of a good relationship.

 

[marmel75]

You got nothing bro, just another orbiter. Quit talking to here right now and flirt with her when you randomly see her, if she flirts back you try again to ask her out at the spot, if she says anything other then yes you move on, period. Goodluck.

You know OP is not going to listen. OP asks for advice then spends the entire thread defending his position on it or justifying away the chicks behavior and wanting everyone to agree that what he is doing is right.

Another one of those if you dont want to follow the advice you get, especially when 20 different people are all giving you the same advice, then why bother asking for it?

 

[Toddz]

Ask her if she likes sausage. When she asks why, tell her because you have one of those big ones.

Tingles the gina every time...

Seriously though, when she said "we all know what you want out of this" you should have agreed and amplified. That was your hint that she was dtf

 

[captain55]

Ask her if she likes sausage. When she asks why, tell her because you have one of those big ones.

Tingles the gina every time...

Seriously though, when she said "we all know what you want out of this" you should have agreed and amplified. That was your hint that she was dtf

I did. I ignored her and she hit me up again. Im like "whatsup"...and she got mad because I basically wasn't having it with her. I ignored her again, so she has no choice but to ask me out now. Im not going to contact her or respond to her unless she hits me up and mentions meeting up

 

[Toddz]

I did. I ignored her and she hit me up again. Im like "whatsup"...and she got mad because I basically wasn't having it with her. I ignored her again, so she has no choice but to ask me out now. Im not going to contact her or respond to her unless she hits me up and mentions meeting up

I'd just be bantering with her at this point taking it light and humorous (****y funny). An example would be in a few days randomly text "I woke up and saw something awesome today" Her "what?" Response "Me, when I looked in the mirror" Cheesy and corny yes, but it subtly displays irrational self confidence and that you don't care how she responds. She'll probably sh*t test you in her response, but that's a good thing. Women respond to this much more than the cut and dry "Hi, how are you?" Busy, but good" " Working, then heading to the gym"... You're not her buddy chatting about life

Respond if she hits you up, there's no reason not to. Just be playful, fun, and not so serious.