"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to go about after fvcking a girl you want to be in a LTR with?

Dragon

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Can we all drop this topic?! I think he gets the point. Also, I've seen WAY more important topics get a lot less attention than this one.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MattS

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Alright well I tested the waters tonight. So I sent the text monday night (fvcked her monday morning). No contact on tuesday. THen tonight I call no answer leave a message and say "hey im about to get a movie in a little bit just seeing if you wanna come along call me...later" I figured no call back. THats the last time im initiating anything with this girl. The reason why I called her was 1. to see if she would answer. 2. to establish if you wanna hang we aint going to just be fvck buddies on the weekened. 3. Give her a tiny bit of attention. Now I can do a take away.

I can almost bet my car on one of these 1. She will call me this weekened or next (probably thinking im going to all her fri or sat night to bone, which im not going to.) or 2. She is so apprehensive about us getting back together and just not ready. well I aint trying nothing anymore so its up to her if not she can go fvck herself while im fvcking other chicks.
 
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