"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to go about after fvcking a girl you want to be in a LTR with?

Dragon

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Can we all drop this topic?! I think he gets the point. Also, I've seen WAY more important topics get a lot less attention than this one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

MattS

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Alright well I tested the waters tonight. So I sent the text monday night (fvcked her monday morning). No contact on tuesday. THen tonight I call no answer leave a message and say "hey im about to get a movie in a little bit just seeing if you wanna come along call me...later" I figured no call back. THats the last time im initiating anything with this girl. The reason why I called her was 1. to see if she would answer. 2. to establish if you wanna hang we aint going to just be fvck buddies on the weekened. 3. Give her a tiny bit of attention. Now I can do a take away.

I can almost bet my car on one of these 1. She will call me this weekened or next (probably thinking im going to all her fri or sat night to bone, which im not going to.) or 2. She is so apprehensive about us getting back together and just not ready. well I aint trying nothing anymore so its up to her if not she can go fvck herself while im fvcking other chicks.
 
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