"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to go about after fvcking a girl you want to be in a LTR with?

Dragon

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Can we all drop this topic?! I think he gets the point. Also, I've seen WAY more important topics get a lot less attention than this one.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alright well I tested the waters tonight. So I sent the text monday night (fvcked her monday morning). No contact on tuesday. THen tonight I call no answer leave a message and say "hey im about to get a movie in a little bit just seeing if you wanna come along call me...later" I figured no call back. THats the last time im initiating anything with this girl. The reason why I called her was 1. to see if she would answer. 2. to establish if you wanna hang we aint going to just be fvck buddies on the weekened. 3. Give her a tiny bit of attention. Now I can do a take away.

I can almost bet my car on one of these 1. She will call me this weekened or next (probably thinking im going to all her fri or sat night to bone, which im not going to.) or 2. She is so apprehensive about us getting back together and just not ready. well I aint trying nothing anymore so its up to her if not she can go fvck herself while im fvcking other chicks.
 
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