How to get with your Ex's friend???

[Debonair_5]

So I dated this chick for like 3 or 4 months and she fell in love with me blah blah blah but whilst I was dating her I met her friend. And let me tell you her friend is prolly HB 8.9ish. Anyways, her friend has given me many IOIs but every time I try to make a serious move she retorts back that my ex wouldn't like this. Is this a lost cause guys? Sucks, cause this girl is way better.

 

[AmIAFC]

Not a lost cause at all. Your value, in her eyes, simply needs to exceed her "loyalty" to her friend. Easier said than done, for sure, but I've actually seen it done.

 

[Joe Stud]

Happened to me. didnt come easy, but was well worth it. My approach was: "Hey, we are over & done with, but why cant you & I have a few drinks as friends". Obviously you get her buzzed, and go from there.

 

[horaholic]

talk to her in a year or two.

 

[Debonair_5]

Not a lost cause at all. Your value, in her eyes, simply needs to exceed her "loyalty" to her friend. Easier said than done, for sure, but I've actually seen it done.

Yeah I was thinking toward that logic too. Also I'm feeling that last comment as well. Just give it some time.