"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to get with your Ex's friend???

Debonair_5

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So I dated this chick for like 3 or 4 months and she fell in love with me blah blah blah but whilst I was dating her I met her friend. And let me tell you her friend is prolly HB 8.9ish. Anyways, her friend has given me many IOIs but every time I try to make a serious move she retorts back that my ex wouldn't like this. Is this a lost cause guys? Sucks, cause this girl is way better.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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AmIAFC

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Not a lost cause at all. Your value, in her eyes, simply needs to exceed her "loyalty" to her friend. Easier said than done, for sure, but I've actually seen it done.
 

Joe Stud

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Happened to me. didnt come easy, but was well worth it. My approach was: "Hey, we are over & done with, but why cant you & I have a few drinks as friends". Obviously you get her buzzed, and go from there.
 

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talk to her in a year or two.
 

Debonair_5

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AmIAFC said:
Not a lost cause at all. Your value, in her eyes, simply needs to exceed her "loyalty" to her friend. Easier said than done, for sure, but I've actually seen it done.
Yeah I was thinking toward that logic too. Also I'm feeling that last comment as well. Just give it some time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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