"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to get with your Ex's friend???

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Debonair_5

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So I dated this chick for like 3 or 4 months and she fell in love with me blah blah blah but whilst I was dating her I met her friend. And let me tell you her friend is prolly HB 8.9ish. Anyways, her friend has given me many IOIs but every time I try to make a serious move she retorts back that my ex wouldn't like this. Is this a lost cause guys? Sucks, cause this girl is way better.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not a lost cause at all. Your value, in her eyes, simply needs to exceed her "loyalty" to her friend. Easier said than done, for sure, but I've actually seen it done.
 
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Happened to me. didnt come easy, but was well worth it. My approach was: "Hey, we are over & done with, but why cant you & I have a few drinks as friends". Obviously you get her buzzed, and go from there.
 
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talk to her in a year or two.
 
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AmIAFC said:
Not a lost cause at all. Your value, in her eyes, simply needs to exceed her "loyalty" to her friend. Easier said than done, for sure, but I've actually seen it done.
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Yeah I was thinking toward that logic too. Also I'm feeling that last comment as well. Just give it some time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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