Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Minimize low nutrient foods, empty carbs etc. Most proteins are nutrient dense.Im bulky now. need to get RIPPED.
Apart from eating less food, what can i do? also what kind of food should I minimize mostly? carbs/fat/protein?
im not even eating empty calories now and im bulkingMinimize low nutrient foods, empty carbs etc. Most proteins are nutrient dense.
Think of a dough-nut and eat the opposite, like a hearty whole grain bran muffin with fruit, nuts and fruit juice as sweeter.
make sure you are counting calories
yeah, count those caloriesim not even eating empty calories now and im bulking
Nah im just overeating nowyeah, count those calories
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
there's your problem...if you like that full feeling without all the calories, try a good cottage cheese,Nah im just overeating now
i cant even eat cheese, because i have candidasis. actually all I can eat is some weird , unusual food. I eat buckheat+eggs 2 times daily but i need more strict diet to get rid of this disease. Right now just limiting the symptoms.there's your problem...if you like that full feeling without all the calories, try a good cottage cheese,
I get a 16oz. kroger 4% cottage cheese with a 8oz. can of chunked pinapple...puts me at around 600 calories for 24oz. of food!!!
Belly full, for only 600 calories!![]()
Sorry to hear that...you could go low carb / paleo for awhile, but for the long term, counting/cutting calories is the only sustainable way.i cant even eat cheese, because i have candidasis. actually all I can eat is some weird , unusual food. I eat buckheat+eggs 2 times daily but i need more strict diet to get rid of this disease. Right now just limiting the symptoms.
Anyway how to get low BF? im not sure your method is good
can try keto diet. increase mobility. run, row, swim, etc. intervals for example and suicides. its all cals in cals out.Im bulky now. need to get RIPPED.
Apart from eating less food, what can i do? also what kind of food should I minimize mostly? carbs/fat/protein?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
+1Gotta count them calories. It truly does help you lose weight so much faster. I started doing it two months go along with walking 15-20 miles a week and have lost 17lbs since. Try to make it fun, cheat a couple time a week, stick to the program.
For my goals I don't see a need to count everything. What im doing is working "for me" and my current goals, but I do want to take it a bit more seriously down the road.+1
Yeah, I count everything, even on free days.
Too many calories can make you sick, not just fat.
For me, meal size is the name of the game. 500-600 is ideal, but I end up in the 800 range. The rubber hits the road here.For my goals I don't see a need to count everything. What im doing is working "for me" and my current goals, but I do want to take it a bit more seriously down the road.
My friends who count everything are shredded. I've been fat my whole life (215-260) no matter how hard I workout or diet. But my diets were never strict like what Im currently doing nor was I doing much of any cardio. I will say some days it really does mess with my head. Once I get to my target weight I plan on switching to a stricter regime.
One day I'll get to that level where I count everything and study my body more. I'm on a very low calorie diet. Some days I miss a meal and my body feels like crap, low energy and really depressed as a result. For me, I have to isolate myself in order to accomplish these goals. I rarely go out anymore, rarely drink or party, dont call no one. I was living a reckless lifestyle. I've become so obsessed with walking that my motivation to start lifting weights again has demised.For me, meal size is the name of the game. 500-600 is ideal, but I end up in the 800 range. The rubber hits the road here.
Sometimes, the low calories, makes me irritable and depressed.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
lol bruh im lean when im bulking. dont even need to cut or have low calories. but I STILL want to look even more awesomeOne day I'll get to that level where I count everything and study my body more. I'm on a very low calorie diet. Some days I miss a meal and my body feels like crap, low energy and really depressed as a result. For me, I have to isolate myself in order to accomplish these goals. I rarely go out anymore, rarely drink or party, dont call no one. I was living a reckless lifestyle. I've become so obsessed with walking that my motivation to start lifting weights again has demised.
Walking is good for the long term. I can't imagine lifting weights when I'm 70.One day I'll get to that level where I count everything and study my body more. I'm on a very low calorie diet. Some days I miss a meal and my body feels like crap, low energy and really depressed as a result. For me, I have to isolate myself in order to accomplish these goals. I rarely go out anymore, rarely drink or party, dont call no one. I was living a reckless lifestyle. I've become so obsessed with walking that my motivation to start lifting weights again has demised.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.