"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Im bulky now. need to get RIPPED.


Apart from eating less food, what can i do? also what kind of food should I minimize mostly? carbs/fat/protein?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Im bulky now. need to get RIPPED.


Apart from eating less food, what can i do? also what kind of food should I minimize mostly? carbs/fat/protein?
Minimize low nutrient foods, empty carbs etc. Most proteins are nutrient dense.

Think of a dough-nut and eat the opposite, like a hearty whole grain bran muffin with fruit, nuts and fruit juice as sweetener.

make sure you are counting calories
 
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Minimize low nutrient foods, empty carbs etc. Most proteins are nutrient dense.

Think of a dough-nut and eat the opposite, like a hearty whole grain bran muffin with fruit, nuts and fruit juice as sweeter.

make sure you are counting calories
im not even eating empty calories now and im bulking
 

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nah im just overeating now
there's your problem...if you like that full feeling without all the calories, try a good cottage cheese,

I get a 16oz. kroger 4% cottage cheese with a 8oz. can of Dole chunked pinapple...puts me at around 600 calories for 24oz. of food!!!

Belly full, for only 600 calories!:p
 

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there's your problem...if you like that full feeling without all the calories, try a good cottage cheese,

I get a 16oz. kroger 4% cottage cheese with a 8oz. can of chunked pinapple...puts me at around 600 calories for 24oz. of food!!!

Belly full, for only 600 calories!:p
i cant even eat cheese, because i have candidasis. actually all I can eat is some weird , unusual food. I eat buckheat+eggs 2 times daily but i need more strict diet to get rid of this disease. Right now just limiting the symptoms.


Anyway how to get low BF? im not sure your method is good
 

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i cant even eat cheese, because i have candidasis. actually all I can eat is some weird , unusual food. I eat buckheat+eggs 2 times daily but i need more strict diet to get rid of this disease. Right now just limiting the symptoms.


Anyway how to get low BF? im not sure your method is good
Sorry to hear that...you could go low carb / paleo for awhile, but for the long term, counting/cutting calories is the only sustainable way.

This way, you get to eat a variety of things, with a variety of nutrients. Some people get sick from lack of nutrition because they failed low carb 101.

If you're not counting, odds are, you're gaining.
 

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Apart from eating less food, what can i do? also what kind of food should I minimize mostly? carbs/fat/protein?
can try keto diet. increase mobility. run, row, swim, etc. intervals for example and suicides. its all cals in cals out.

I will begin my log shortly and upload pics.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gotta count them calories. It truly does help you lose weight so much faster. I started doing it two months ago along with walking 15-20 miles a week and have lost 17lbs since. Try to make it fun, cheat a couple times a week, stick to the program.
 
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Gotta count them calories. It truly does help you lose weight so much faster. I started doing it two months go along with walking 15-20 miles a week and have lost 17lbs since. Try to make it fun, cheat a couple time a week, stick to the program.
+1

Yeah, I count everything, even on free days.

Too many calories can make you sick, not just fat.
 

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Yeah, I count everything, even on free days.

Too many calories can make you sick, not just fat.
For my goals I don't see a need to count everything. What im doing is working "for me" and my current goals, but I do want to take it a bit more seriously down the road.

My friends who count everything are shredded. I've been fat my whole life (215-260) no matter how hard I workout or diet. But my diets were never strict like what Im currently doing nor was I doing much of any cardio. I will say some days it really does mess with my head. Once I get to my target weight I plan on switching to a stricter regime.
 

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For my goals I don't see a need to count everything. What im doing is working "for me" and my current goals, but I do want to take it a bit more seriously down the road.

My friends who count everything are shredded. I've been fat my whole life (215-260) no matter how hard I workout or diet. But my diets were never strict like what Im currently doing nor was I doing much of any cardio. I will say some days it really does mess with my head. Once I get to my target weight I plan on switching to a stricter regime.
For me, meal size is the name of the game. 500-600 is ideal, but I end up in the 800 range. The rubber hits the road here.

Sometimes, the low calories, makes me irritable and depressed.
 

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For me, meal size is the name of the game. 500-600 is ideal, but I end up in the 800 range. The rubber hits the road here.

Sometimes, the low calories, makes me irritable and depressed.
One day I'll get to that level where I count everything and study my body more. I'm on a very low calorie diet. Some days I miss a meal and my body feels like crap, low energy and really depressed as a result. For me, I have to isolate myself in order to accomplish these goals. I rarely go out anymore, rarely drink or party, dont call no one. I was living a reckless lifestyle. I've become so obsessed with walking that my motivation to start lifting weights again has demised.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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One day I'll get to that level where I count everything and study my body more. I'm on a very low calorie diet. Some days I miss a meal and my body feels like crap, low energy and really depressed as a result. For me, I have to isolate myself in order to accomplish these goals. I rarely go out anymore, rarely drink or party, dont call no one. I was living a reckless lifestyle. I've become so obsessed with walking that my motivation to start lifting weights again has demised.
lol bruh im lean when im bulking. dont even need to cut or have low calories. but I STILL want to look even more awesome
 

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One day I'll get to that level where I count everything and study my body more. I'm on a very low calorie diet. Some days I miss a meal and my body feels like crap, low energy and really depressed as a result. For me, I have to isolate myself in order to accomplish these goals. I rarely go out anymore, rarely drink or party, dont call no one. I was living a reckless lifestyle. I've become so obsessed with walking that my motivation to start lifting weights again has demised.
Walking is good for the long term. I can't imagine lifting weights when I'm 70.
 

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Up your fat intake and lower your carb intake. Particularly dairy fats. Get rid of that infection you have, because dairy fats make your body able to to burn fat more easily.
 

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I was 248 December 1st. No gym, eating like sh*t. I woke up at 207 this morning.
Breafast:
I eat half portion of Farina or steel cut oats, with 1 cup of egg whites and half cup of blueberries, raspberries or black berries. No sugars or flavorings.

Throughout the day:
I make (night before) two 24 oz nutri-bullet shakes, containing 1.5 cups of greens (broccoli, collards, spinach, kale, etc) and half cup of fruit (always different). In each shake I put a half scoop of vanilla whey protein powder (tried chocolate, but tastes like sh*t).
I also east a 1/4 cup of mixed nuts at some point. (depends how hungry I am, when I eat it)
One cup of coffee (16 or 20oz)

Dinner:
I pre-cook all of my meats on sunday for the week. One steak, one ground turkey, One boneless skinless chicken breast, one fish. I pre-weigh (at 4.5 oz), bag and freeze. Every night, I take one bag and cook it with two different types of vegetables (Pepper, Zucchini, squash, spinach, etc... you get the idea) I usually add 1 cup of egg whites and mix it all together. I eat early, ALWAYS before 6:30. and I eat nothing until my breakfast the next day.

Gym:
- Monday, Wednesday and Friday - Lifting/body sculpting
- Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday - Cardio - Normally Jiu Jitsu / kick boxing class (Great cardio workout believe it or not)

Cheat Friday and Saturday. But not crazy. Usually chicken wings, sh*t like that.

Sunday, start strict again.

That works for me. Once I get to my ideal weight, I will adjust, as far as upping my caloric intake just enough to maintain. Good Luck, I know it's tough.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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