How to Get to Her

[Oni]

So there's this girl that I have known from middle school. Somehow lately I've been thinking about her and I might want to start something up with her...if she's still single. The problem is...

I haven't seen her in 4 years
No phone number
No SN
She goes to another school
..
nothing to start with at all!

The only connection i got with her is through a friend who knows her, but this dude got a crush on her.

so...what do i do?

 

[Muphaser]

set someting up where you out with dude and you "accidently" see her... sparks fly, etc

Its a fresh start so you can show her the new you

 

[killbill]

I know

What you guys should do is invite her to your house or your buddies and hangout with her. Then at the end if she is still cool ask for a phone number.

Also man remember this people do not stay the same. I actually had a situaition just like you. I knew the chick like 5 years ago and then recently I just talked with her and she was just not the same. she wasnt cool anymore.
so good luck man.

 

[dannowillbookem]

if you drive, pick ur buddy up and hangout, ask for her number so you can call her. OR follow the suggestion of setting something up and make it seem like a coincidence u guys got together OR...look around for her myspace and get a start from there (if thats ALL you can do) but dont use that til the other choices are impossible

 

[Oni]

thats what i had in mind too. I wanted to set something up for us to meet by "coincidence." but i havent come up with anything yet.

 

[shydude]

Dont loose her. Act fast. And do something like meet her, invite her, or even tell ur friend so he can tell her that u wanna see her. Just do it!! DO something.. She might reject u, but rejection is always better than not doing it at all.. Trust me, i learned it really the hard way. KNow i just do everything like there is no tomorow! And u know what? It works. JUst Do IT!

 

[Oni]

easier said than done. i found out my friend and some of her friends are planning a trip and they needed some more ppl. im going to use this to get to her...somehow.

 

[Amir0n]

how about this... your friend has a crush on her... use him to get here... give him some tips you read on the website... tell him how to act and tell him you can help get her number msn what ever and than try and get a date...

 

[Oni]

haha bu that will make me look like such a bad person... taking advantage of my friend to gain personal benefit. doesnt sond like somehting a DJ will do.

 

[Muphaser]

naw its been said, bros before b!tches... friends before F4nny

 

[Microphone Fiend]

a year and a half and still one-itis posts? lol, seriosuly tho. Are there no girls around you so you have to chase a girl you havent seen in 4 yrs?????I know you will disregard this post but I thought I just point it out because you are skipping the fact.

 

[Oni]

no, shes not a oneitis, just a potential. know what i mean?

 

[Microphone Fiend]

potential is the girl you met last week, one-its is the one you havent seen in 4 yrs...know what I mean?

 

[Oni]

oh, i thought oneitis is just that one girl that you just have to have and she is "the one." i never had any crush on her or nothing hen we were at middle school either. it's just i was browsing myspace the other day and i came across a picture of her and man my eyes were glued to the screen. i thought maybe i can start something with her.

 

[Oni]

well this is harder than i thought. my friend just refuses to cooperate with me. i give up