"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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crimsonclockwork

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I would post this in the highschool section (since Im in highschool) but I want some better advice. Im not some poor, assugly afc who is totally falling for a girl. In fact its almost the opposite.

Anyhow, I met this girl through another one of my love interests, and we're talking. We have done a few things when we're with friends and all, and I thought to myself that I might actually go after her or rather she has the privalidge and honor of having me go after her. :D

So anyway. I have been doing some kino. First off, shes shy and Im not. Naturally Im going to be intiating the kino for the first few days or whatever. She responds positively to them. But Im kinda getting bored of this lame ass hugging occasionally/pushing/ect. ect. For me it seems like its still the friends zone. I want to step it up a few noches.

If you were in my situation, what would you do? Mind you this girl is pretty shy. Its only Monday, and its too early to ask her to do anything for the weekend. We have Friday off if that helps any. I appriciate any advice/guidance/critism. :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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crimsonclockwork

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Also... Tuesday isn't too early to ask someone to do something for thursday night right?

...ok ok that was just an excuse to bump this. :D
 

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with a shy girl, you may have to work a bit slower. i dont think increasing the kino is effective because shy girls tend to have a higher physical resistence level. with her, i'd suggest that you capture her emotionally b4 you can progess physically.
 

crimsonclockwork

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Care to explain how? Doesn't that kind of go against everything that a DJ is? Im not one, but still that wasn't exactly what I was expecting. Thanks anyhow. :)
 
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