"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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crimsonclockwork

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I would post this in the highschool section (since Im in highschool) but I want some better advice. Im not some poor, assugly afc who is totally falling for a girl. In fact its almost the opposite.

Anyhow, I met this girl through another one of my love interests, and we're talking. We have done a few things when we're with friends and all, and I thought to myself that I might actually go after her or rather she has the privalidge and honor of having me go after her. :D

So anyway. I have been doing some kino. First off, shes shy and Im not. Naturally Im going to be intiating the kino for the first few days or whatever. She responds positively to them. But Im kinda getting bored of this lame ass hugging occasionally/pushing/ect. ect. For me it seems like its still the friends zone. I want to step it up a few noches.

If you were in my situation, what would you do? Mind you this girl is pretty shy. Its only Monday, and its too early to ask her to do anything for the weekend. We have Friday off if that helps any. I appriciate any advice/guidance/critism. :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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crimsonclockwork

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Also... Tuesday isn't too early to ask someone to do something for thursday night right?

...ok ok that was just an excuse to bump this. :D
 

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with a shy girl, you may have to work a bit slower. i dont think increasing the kino is effective because shy girls tend to have a higher physical resistence level. with her, i'd suggest that you capture her emotionally b4 you can progess physically.
 

crimsonclockwork

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Care to explain how? Doesn't that kind of go against everything that a DJ is? Im not one, but still that wasn't exactly what I was expecting. Thanks anyhow. :)
 
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