"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to get this HB8.5 at work??

Ken785

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i just started work at the grocery store and there is this girl that works there at the deli. She is soo hot. How should i approach her? any suggestions??,how can i find out that she has a BF or not without striaght up asking her?? i really want to bag this girl.

ps. i dont care what you guys say about work and relationships, im only going to be working there for the next 3 months anyways..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Ken785
how can i find out that she has a BF or not without striaght up asking her??
stalk her, the chicks love it
 

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pretend she doesn't until she says so

an easy way to tell if a girl ha a boyfriend is this:

Look at her lips very closely next time you're talking to her. If they are wrapped around another guy's d!ck, she has a boyfriend.
 

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Women let you know pretty quickly if they have a boyfriend- it just comes out in their conversation. I would go as far as to say that if you've just meet a girl, no matter what time or place, and you have been conversing with them for 20-30 minutes you will definately have an answer by then.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is the greatest opener of them all... guaranteed to work for anyone... on any girl... in any situation... in any country... at any venue... at any time of day... are you ready for this?

"sup?"
 

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Well...I can help, but I sure as hell have only one, but effective way to do it. "Are you single?" If you're afraid of doing that, maybe you should consider being a woman. Come on man! Grab your nuts and ask directly! Women ask indirectly, men ask directly!
 

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Chicks actually like stalking, but then why when I was not a DJ did the girl tell others that I stalked her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ken785

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you know what...i just got off work. While i was at work this other AFC co-worker is trying to get with her. He tries to "talk to her" n stuff like that thinkimh hes earning points...

you know what? as soon as i get i chance to talk to her imma ask for her number. fvck the bullsh!t. imma just be like "hey you know what?, why dont we exchange numbers?, maybe get to know each other a little bit better besides when we're at work..."

fvck the other AFC co-workers that try to get "points" with her. THIS GIRL IS MINE!!
 

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You are giving her too much value, and that is why you will fail.
 

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listen up dude. You can't be like the other guys. In the sense of just going up there with balls, you're being diferent. but they all want her and are reeking of deseperation. you....you my friend....you have access to pvssy like AIR. and you must communicate this to her.

but remember....actions speak louder than words.

you'll stand out and as you lose your desperation, she will want you more, and you can choose to hook up with her or not. you're desperate, so stop thinking so much man. plus, don't be so fast to put down the AFCs. they're all like us, just a level lower and cluelessa bout this awesome site. I used to feel like putting them down. but now I stand up for myself and anyone else who's being bullied and people respect me more for that.

now, if you just want the pvssy, just go up, ask for her number with your line, and if she says, "er...maybe...no...not now....etc." or some other ******** bull****, just say, "ok i'll catch you later then" and walk away proud to carry on your own business. then just keep acting as you would if she were a normal person, or a man. lol. she'll be like, "wtf i jsut rejectd this guy and he's unphazed...he must have pvssy like AIR just like AFK Protector!! ohh...afk" lol jp about the AFK part, but the rest is sure to happen.

****, i typed a lot for you. you don't deserve this man. lol. go get a paypal account. now.
 

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AFK Protector had a nice post, but since you asked I'll expand on my earlier post.

The problem is you are putting this girl on a pedestal, i.e. giving her too much value. That automatically puts you a level or two below her and she will sense this in you. It also makes you seem more desperate, which is another turn-off.

My advice is to get her out of your head by meeting other women. I know that may be easier said than done, but going for the one hot chic at your work whom is already getting attention from other AFCs is just making your job too hard. Work smarter, not harder.

Also women are not goddesses. They eat, sleep, sh!t and worry about the opposite sex as much as (or maybe more than) we do. You are the man, and you have power over the puzzy, but only if you have the balls to take it. Declaring love for a girl you barely know is not the way.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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