"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to get rid of this feeling?

lokariototal

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1. I always feel that I'm not "ready" yet. That i'm not good enough. Even tho' Ive done many many many approaches, phone closes, read lots of books, I still have a feeling that I'm incapable of getting women, and I don't know why. How can I get rid of this?

2. What do u guys think of ****y Comedy? I tried it some years ago when I was first learning and it felt phony and a bit lame. Things like "you're into me" just.. i dunno.. sound lame. But sometimes I wonder myself if that's the attitude I'm lacking!

3. For some reason, most time when I invite girls to a date, even tho' they seem to like me, even tho i make them laugh and have a good time, and so on, they say they don't want a date, or generally they just say "yes! but let's go with my friends". Also, group of best friends (who were in the same situation than me with women) are getting out of it and I feel I'm being left behind... I'm starting to hate when my friends succeed

5. Sometimes, if we're for example on a table hanging out and a couple is kissing, I feel bad to myself. I feel Im incapable of doing that. I feel they look down on me! I guess i have a weird complex or somethin'

6. I think part of my problem is that I tend to pretend that my love life is all handled (even tho i feel is a failure) and for that I don't seem to connect with women on an intimate level. I think what i'm lacking is intimacy with girls. Maybe girls dont want to date me cuz there's no intimacy. What do u think?

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Soprano

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1. i'm not "ready" yet either, i still need to lose 20 lbs before i wanna take my shirt off at the beach, but i may as well still be getting laid while i'm "getting ready", plus its perfect practice for when i am "ready", dont psych yourself out, keep doing it. some people never feel "ready" and it prevents them from doing anything.

2. i think ****y comedy is a good mindset to have, but using that stuff word for word is no good. having that mindset is great though.

could be lack of intimacy but i have no idea why lol i only got responses for #1 and #2
 
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