“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to get rid of this feeling?

lokariototal

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1. I always feel that I'm not "ready" yet. That i'm not good enough. Even tho' Ive done many many many approaches, phone closes, read lots of books, I still have a feeling that I'm incapable of getting women, and I don't know why. How can I get rid of this?

2. What do u guys think of ****y Comedy? I tried it some years ago when I was first learning and it felt phony and a bit lame. Things like "you're into me" just.. i dunno.. sound lame. But sometimes I wonder myself if that's the attitude I'm lacking!

3. For some reason, most time when I invite girls to a date, even tho' they seem to like me, even tho i make them laugh and have a good time, and so on, they say they don't want a date, or generally they just say "yes! but let's go with my friends". Also, group of best friends (who were in the same situation than me with women) are getting out of it and I feel I'm being left behind... I'm starting to hate when my friends succeed

5. Sometimes, if we're for example on a table hanging out and a couple is kissing, I feel bad to myself. I feel Im incapable of doing that. I feel they look down on me! I guess i have a weird complex or somethin'

6. I think part of my problem is that I tend to pretend that my love life is all handled (even tho i feel is a failure) and for that I don't seem to connect with women on an intimate level. I think what i'm lacking is intimacy with girls. Maybe girls dont want to date me cuz there's no intimacy. What do u think?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Soprano

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1. i'm not "ready" yet either, i still need to lose 20 lbs before i wanna take my shirt off at the beach, but i may as well still be getting laid while i'm "getting ready", plus its perfect practice for when i am "ready", dont psych yourself out, keep doing it. some people never feel "ready" and it prevents them from doing anything.

2. i think ****y comedy is a good mindset to have, but using that stuff word for word is no good. having that mindset is great though.

could be lack of intimacy but i have no idea why lol i only got responses for #1 and #2
 
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