So ive been banging this girl for about two months now. Shes crazy about me in a bad way. She keeps talking about wanting to move in with me and get married and im not feeling it. She keeps calling me and my work all the time. And i think somthing is wrong in her head. Like shes obssed with me and might try to kill herself if i Break up with her. Does any one have a way of getting rid of girls loike this with minimum colleteral damage
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
how to get rid of crazy girl
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
Uhh, there's pretty much no way. I know you probably care about her, but there's no way to do guarantee it, man. I'm sorry. I just ended a relationship with a suicidal girl.
I was constantly worried and I found, in the end, that it was 90% sex appeal 10% worrying.
Do this, just slowly detach. Do what women do. Get her prepared for it. When she flips out, just pat her on the back, say "It's gonna be okay. I'm sorry it had to be this way." and then walk away.
It's not your job to make other people look inside themselves. They have to do that... and some people really have to go through that period of depression to see it for what it is.
I was constantly worried and I found, in the end, that it was 90% sex appeal 10% worrying.
Do this, just slowly detach. Do what women do. Get her prepared for it. When she flips out, just pat her on the back, say "It's gonna be okay. I'm sorry it had to be this way." and then walk away.
It's not your job to make other people look inside themselves. They have to do that... and some people really have to go through that period of depression to see it for what it is.
abe0
Senior Don Juan
My friend went through this. if this really gets out of hand and if she really is harassing you and is that crazy... you might have to warn her that if she continues that behavior that you will call the police and file a restraining order on her. If she shows up at your house or work....call the police. After several reports if she does not stop than you can file a restraining order in court. The advantage of the restraining order is that now she knows if she keeps it up...she will be arrested and face the judge.
It is ugly....but if its that bad...that is the only way. I would only go that route if she persists.
My friend had to deal with his x gf texting her 30 times a day and showing up at his house daily for about 2 months. He tried to be nice about it ...but as a last resort he had to do what I just mentioned.
Good Luck.... Abe
It is ugly....but if its that bad...that is the only way. I would only go that route if she persists.
My friend had to deal with his x gf texting her 30 times a day and showing up at his house daily for about 2 months. He tried to be nice about it ...but as a last resort he had to do what I just mentioned.
Good Luck.... Abe
So pulling a fade away is my best option?
Ive been thinking about this. And then maybe having one of my female freinds post on my facebook. Somthing like "had an amazing time the other night we should do it again". She`ll definately see it. Is this a bad idea? Im going to sleep with her some more. Just cause im horny, but
When i do find somone i want to be serious with i dont want her driving them away acting all crazy as hell. I just dont know how to handle this. Should i let her see me flirting with other girls and lead her to think im banging them too?
Ive been thinking about this. And then maybe having one of my female freinds post on my facebook. Somthing like "had an amazing time the other night we should do it again". She`ll definately see it. Is this a bad idea? Im going to sleep with her some more. Just cause im horny, but
When i do find somone i want to be serious with i dont want her driving them away acting all crazy as hell. I just dont know how to handle this. Should i let her see me flirting with other girls and lead her to think im banging them too?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Start asking her for money.
Tictac
Banned
Go full metal beta.