So ive been banging this girl for about two months now. Shes crazy about me in a bad way. She keeps talking about wanting to move in with me and get married and im not feeling it. She keeps calling me and my work all the time. And i think somthing is wrong in her head. Like shes obssed with me and might try to kill herself if i Break up with her. Does any one have a way of getting rid of girls loike this with minimum colleteral damage
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
how to get rid of crazy girl
- Thread starter PAR420
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
Uhh, there's pretty much no way. I know you probably care about her, but there's no way to do guarantee it, man. I'm sorry. I just ended a relationship with a suicidal girl.
I was constantly worried and I found, in the end, that it was 90% sex appeal 10% worrying.
Do this, just slowly detach. Do what women do. Get her prepared for it. When she flips out, just pat her on the back, say "It's gonna be okay. I'm sorry it had to be this way." and then walk away.
It's not your job to make other people look inside themselves. They have to do that... and some people really have to go through that period of depression to see it for what it is.
I was constantly worried and I found, in the end, that it was 90% sex appeal 10% worrying.
Do this, just slowly detach. Do what women do. Get her prepared for it. When she flips out, just pat her on the back, say "It's gonna be okay. I'm sorry it had to be this way." and then walk away.
It's not your job to make other people look inside themselves. They have to do that... and some people really have to go through that period of depression to see it for what it is.
abe0
Senior Don Juan
My friend went through this. if this really gets out of hand and if she really is harassing you and is that crazy... you might have to warn her that if she continues that behavior that you will call the police and file a restraining order on her. If she shows up at your house or work....call the police. After several reports if she does not stop than you can file a restraining order in court. The advantage of the restraining order is that now she knows if she keeps it up...she will be arrested and face the judge.
It is ugly....but if its that bad...that is the only way. I would only go that route if she persists.
My friend had to deal with his x gf texting her 30 times a day and showing up at his house daily for about 2 months. He tried to be nice about it ...but as a last resort he had to do what I just mentioned.
Good Luck.... Abe
It is ugly....but if its that bad...that is the only way. I would only go that route if she persists.
My friend had to deal with his x gf texting her 30 times a day and showing up at his house daily for about 2 months. He tried to be nice about it ...but as a last resort he had to do what I just mentioned.
Good Luck.... Abe
So pulling a fade away is my best option?
Ive been thinking about this. And then maybe having one of my female freinds post on my facebook. Somthing like "had an amazing time the other night we should do it again". She`ll definately see it. Is this a bad idea? Im going to sleep with her some more. Just cause im horny, but
When i do find somone i want to be serious with i dont want her driving them away acting all crazy as hell. I just dont know how to handle this. Should i let her see me flirting with other girls and lead her to think im banging them too?
Ive been thinking about this. And then maybe having one of my female freinds post on my facebook. Somthing like "had an amazing time the other night we should do it again". She`ll definately see it. Is this a bad idea? Im going to sleep with her some more. Just cause im horny, but
When i do find somone i want to be serious with i dont want her driving them away acting all crazy as hell. I just dont know how to handle this. Should i let her see me flirting with other girls and lead her to think im banging them too?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Start asking her for money.
Tictac
Banned
Go full metal beta.