"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to get rid of an impression of me being a clown?

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antidonjuan

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i think ppl view me as a clown? what should i do? i need some serious help! how should i change other ppl's view on me? begging for help
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alright, as a recovering "clown" there are a few tips i may have for you that may be of use. First, just be yourself. Alot of guys try to act funny and be a clown just for attention. Well, you don't really need to go out looking for that attention, just let it come to you. If a girl is interested she will talk to you. Another thing is people's opinions on you don't change over night. Try to rebuild relationships with those certain people and let them know who you really are. Personally, the clown persona isn't all negative. Some girls are really attracted to that type of personality, but others (which is the majority) just think you and your group of friends are immature. It takes time man, and you just might out grow it.
 
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Mix in some serious conversations when the topic goes that way. Watch the news, read, get some opinions.

If you clown around all the time, you will be seen that way, if you show there is more under the surface then the world is your oyster.
 
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