Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to get rid of an impression of me being a clown?

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antidonjuan

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i think ppl view me as a clown? what should i do? i need some serious help! how should i change other ppl's view on me? begging for help
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alright, as a recovering "clown" there are a few tips i may have for you that may be of use. First, just be yourself. Alot of guys try to act funny and be a clown just for attention. Well, you don't really need to go out looking for that attention, just let it come to you. If a girl is interested she will talk to you. Another thing is people's opinions on you don't change over night. Try to rebuild relationships with those certain people and let them know who you really are. Personally, the clown persona isn't all negative. Some girls are really attracted to that type of personality, but others (which is the majority) just think you and your group of friends are immature. It takes time man, and you just might out grow it.
 
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Mix in some serious conversations when the topic goes that way. Watch the news, read, get some opinions.

If you clown around all the time, you will be seen that way, if you show there is more under the surface then the world is your oyster.
 
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