“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to get past Last-Minute Resistance

toddC

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Okay, so I posted a few days ago on how my girl is a prude and I'm having problems with getting her to advance with me sexually. I think this is mostly due to her ex boyfriend. When we first got together we were talking about ex's and such and she said shes been in love once (her ex boyfriend). I know for a fact that she either had sex with him or gave him he4d. Now I think this is whats holding her back. We both like each other a lot but I think she thinks I'm going to leave her after I get what I want out of her...

So heres my question to you guys. Without making it seem obvious how can I tell her that I WILL NOT be leaving her after we have sex? Also....How can I beat this Last Minute Resistance?

The 2nd question is more of a generality for other girls aswell but I'd also like some specific responses towards this situation.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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08aisaac

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Hmm man. Let's see. Sounds like she's a little insecure. Girls get that way alot. Girls that I'm totally friends with say they're mostly not getting with guys because all guys want is sex, they don't care about the girls personality.
Maybe some exciting dates would help you out. Or if you can get her horny, then it's all over. Girls can't control themselves after that, even if they hate you, which hopefully she doesn't, they will still want to do fu<k you. And then after you're done, she can tell you how you turn her on like no other guys ever done.
 

B-Lemond

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If you know the term LMR, then you should know how to use the Search Button.


Don't Expect to be Spoon Feed the Information.


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toddC

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I actually DID look up LMR and I didn't find ANY information pertaining to my specific situation..
 

Distant Light

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I'm being alittle lazy today wasn't even going to reply but I'll give you a few things you can do, while I never been in a situation where I have to convey that I'm not going no where because usually I set the frame that if we fuvk its not only going to be this one time. When yall are getting hot and heavy or makeout escalates I'd sometimes say "baby I can't stop thinking about you" and act even more sexual.

Or just move back from whateva you did that made her resist and just keep making out. If all else fails I usually then just do a freezeout and maybe go type a report or go watch a movie.

There are other stuff but too lazy but gave you 3 things you could try.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Damian

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A few routines that will help you out:

-"Hijacked my Brain"
-Let her help in setting a seduction environment
-Freeze-Out

Credit to the Venusian Arts Handbook.

-Damian
 
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