"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to get past Last-Minute Resistance

toddC

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Okay, so I posted a few days ago on how my girl is a prude and I'm having problems with getting her to advance with me sexually. I think this is mostly due to her ex boyfriend. When we first got together we were talking about ex's and such and she said shes been in love once (her ex boyfriend). I know for a fact that she either had sex with him or gave him he4d. Now I think this is whats holding her back. We both like each other a lot but I think she thinks I'm going to leave her after I get what I want out of her...

So heres my question to you guys. Without making it seem obvious how can I tell her that I WILL NOT be leaving her after we have sex? Also....How can I beat this Last Minute Resistance?

The 2nd question is more of a generality for other girls aswell but I'd also like some specific responses towards this situation.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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08aisaac

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Hmm man. Let's see. Sounds like she's a little insecure. Girls get that way alot. Girls that I'm totally friends with say they're mostly not getting with guys because all guys want is sex, they don't care about the girls personality.
Maybe some exciting dates would help you out. Or if you can get her horny, then it's all over. Girls can't control themselves after that, even if they hate you, which hopefully she doesn't, they will still want to do fu<k you. And then after you're done, she can tell you how you turn her on like no other guys ever done.
 

B-Lemond

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If you know the term LMR, then you should know how to use the Search Button.


Don't Expect to be Spoon Feed the Information.


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toddC

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I actually DID look up LMR and I didn't find ANY information pertaining to my specific situation..
 

Distant Light

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I'm being alittle lazy today wasn't even going to reply but I'll give you a few things you can do, while I never been in a situation where I have to convey that I'm not going no where because usually I set the frame that if we fuvk its not only going to be this one time. When yall are getting hot and heavy or makeout escalates I'd sometimes say "baby I can't stop thinking about you" and act even more sexual.

Or just move back from whateva you did that made her resist and just keep making out. If all else fails I usually then just do a freezeout and maybe go type a report or go watch a movie.

There are other stuff but too lazy but gave you 3 things you could try.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Damian

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A few routines that will help you out:

-"Hijacked my Brain"
-Let her help in setting a seduction environment
-Freeze-Out

Credit to the Venusian Arts Handbook.

-Damian
 
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