JohnChops
Master Don Juan
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Everyone was driven to this site for a reason and that reason being that one "special lady" that you "loved". "I GAVE HER EVERYTHING, ALL MY ATTENTION, ALL MY DEVOTION, WE HAD SUCH DEEP CONVERSATIONS!!!!!!!!!! WHY DOES SHE ONLY SEE ME AS A FRIEND?! WHERES THE ROPE AND STOOL ALL IS LOST!"
We've all been here, some harder than others, but honestly heres my story and how I got over my girl. Ironically it happened just now and thats why I want to write this up. Like I am fully over this girl, no emotional attachment.
So it started out when I personally met this girl at the club. Got her number and had some of the longest conversations I have ever had with a women. They were deep, went on for weeks, and I thought I wouldnt get attached. I really wasnt attached at all from the start. However, something happened where I LOVED THIS GIRL! Like it was some serious oneitis which was bs. I thought this girl was "the one" and the only good girl out there. I put her on a pedestal, I turned back into a chump, and I gave her all my attention.
Eventually I told her I loved her and it went far down hill from there. After we hooked up its like I was hooked for whatever reason. So after that I deleted her texts, facebook, and number from my phone and I have been better off ever since. improving my life and doing what I should be doing.
Just recently she started texting me again, I decided to respond. Usually when she texts me I get all excited and what not but now I just dont care. There is no feeling left for this girl. I realized that she was not even remotely close to the best girl I have ever been with. After her I have had so much better, I saw that the grass was greener on the other side.
Fast forward to this convo I just had with her. She said my ego is out of control, I never text her anymore, and im a player. Lol to all this. So somewhere along this convo she said how her ego was boosted , I asked how, she said "well when I was a wh0re I loved the satisfaction of talking to 4 different guys at once. " Holy sh1t this gave me the largest realization in my mind that this girl IS NOTHING. She is nothing special, not one bit and shes fvcking gross. When I started to improve myself, it seems like she got uglier. It was a funny thing. And I think once I heard her say that it was the last thread that needed to be broken to fully break away from this girl.
All I did was slowly realize that YES, the grass is greener on the otherside with sexier girls. I also made her look ugly in my mind (in she is in real life now anyway so...), and I made her seem like nothing. Just some tips and a personal story from me to help out anyone who is new and who wants to break their "love" from their mind.
JohnChops
We've all been here, some harder than others, but honestly heres my story and how I got over my girl. Ironically it happened just now and thats why I want to write this up. Like I am fully over this girl, no emotional attachment.
So it started out when I personally met this girl at the club. Got her number and had some of the longest conversations I have ever had with a women. They were deep, went on for weeks, and I thought I wouldnt get attached. I really wasnt attached at all from the start. However, something happened where I LOVED THIS GIRL! Like it was some serious oneitis which was bs. I thought this girl was "the one" and the only good girl out there. I put her on a pedestal, I turned back into a chump, and I gave her all my attention.
Eventually I told her I loved her and it went far down hill from there. After we hooked up its like I was hooked for whatever reason. So after that I deleted her texts, facebook, and number from my phone and I have been better off ever since. improving my life and doing what I should be doing.
Just recently she started texting me again, I decided to respond. Usually when she texts me I get all excited and what not but now I just dont care. There is no feeling left for this girl. I realized that she was not even remotely close to the best girl I have ever been with. After her I have had so much better, I saw that the grass was greener on the other side.
Fast forward to this convo I just had with her. She said my ego is out of control, I never text her anymore, and im a player. Lol to all this. So somewhere along this convo she said how her ego was boosted , I asked how, she said "well when I was a wh0re I loved the satisfaction of talking to 4 different guys at once. " Holy sh1t this gave me the largest realization in my mind that this girl IS NOTHING. She is nothing special, not one bit and shes fvcking gross. When I started to improve myself, it seems like she got uglier. It was a funny thing. And I think once I heard her say that it was the last thread that needed to be broken to fully break away from this girl.
All I did was slowly realize that YES, the grass is greener on the otherside with sexier girls. I also made her look ugly in my mind (in she is in real life now anyway so...), and I made her seem like nothing. Just some tips and a personal story from me to help out anyone who is new and who wants to break their "love" from their mind.
JohnChops