How to get over insecurities!?

[bigwuz]

In my relationships I tend to get clingy too involved and insecure. So I decided to ask how to keep from being insecure and also post ways I think will keep you from being insecure.
1 always have something to do a goal for the day or whatever. I think this could be as simple as going for a walk or even doing laundry. Then make bigger goals exp I want to start taking bjj classes art classes and learn to ride a horse

2. Have friends you can go too this is hard because honestly I don't have any friends really but having a social group keeps you distracted from being insecure with females

3. Don't ever get mad ever if you find yourself getting mad go inside your mind and count to 3 I personally tend to take most things as a joke (I have a long fuse) think

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Give a **** less everyday and Smile

 

[RangerMIke]

Give a **** less everyday and Smile

This is pretty much it. Have goals and objectives, but not be attached to a certain outcome. Insecurity comes from worry, worry comes from being outcome dependent.... Just know that you are doing the best you can with what you have and recognize there are just things you can not control.

 

[Groverz]

We all deal with it, I think it takes time and not getting so upset of not reaching a goal or over thinking things. I guess try to live in the now and not worry so much about the future. Not giving a S it is not easy it goes against most peoples natural being.

 

[Sprayarc]

The fact that you admit this is a problem is an excellent start. Now you are working on it. Don't worry about it to much and like every one else says just care less about things. Change takes time. Baby steps.