"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how to get in contact with this girl.....

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Dave111

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I have a pic up on hotornot.com. This hot looking girl from my town send me a message saying that she thinks Im hot etc, but I cant actually reply to her unless I pay a fecking membership fee of $5.50 a month and you need a credit card. They wont let you put your email address up on your profile either

1.I dont really want to pay to speak to a girl
2.I dont have a credit card anyway

is there anyway you can get in touch with her, but cutting out the www.hotornot.com!

what con artists!

any advice or know how to go round this problem as this girl is hot!,really hot!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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satyriasis

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Simple logic. If you dont know anyone who has a paid membership account then you cant get her contact info, it's just a dating site looking to get paid. Just stick to myspace or something if you dont wanna pay.
 
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Perhaps if you browse through people on myspace matching her features you might get lucky... odds are good she's on both. Try searching within a 25-50 mile radius of your zip code... plug in her age, hair color, eyes, etc... narrow it down.

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I had a problem like that with another site.. Try to sneak past their censors by saying things like 'hot male' instead of hotmail, or put in your profile that you require their email if they contact you before you can reply.

I found it too much hassle, I'm not paying for that.. I don't use them anymore.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The only thing I would know to do would be to google her username and see if it's used on any other sites such as yahoo and you could possibly get in contact with her from there.
 
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