"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how to get in contact with this girl.....

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I have a pic up on hotornot.com. This hot looking girl from my town send me a message saying that she thinks Im hot etc, but I cant actually reply to her unless I pay a fecking membership fee of $5.50 a month and you need a credit card. They wont let you put your email address up on your profile either

1.I dont really want to pay to speak to a girl
2.I dont have a credit card anyway

is there anyway you can get in touch with her, but cutting out the www.hotornot.com!

what con artists!

any advice or know how to go round this problem as this girl is hot!,really hot!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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satyriasis

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Simple logic. If you dont know anyone who has a paid membership account then you cant get her contact info, it's just a dating site looking to get paid. Just stick to myspace or something if you dont wanna pay.
 
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Perhaps if you browse through people on myspace matching her features you might get lucky... odds are good she's on both. Try searching within a 25-50 mile radius of your zip code... plug in her age, hair color, eyes, etc... narrow it down.

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arutha

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I had a problem like that with another site.. Try to sneak past their censors by saying things like 'hot male' instead of hotmail, or put in your profile that you require their email if they contact you before you can reply.

I found it too much hassle, I'm not paying for that.. I don't use them anymore.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The only thing I would know to do would be to google her username and see if it's used on any other sites such as yahoo and you could possibly get in contact with her from there.
 
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