"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys.

I am totally new in this forum, but I am certainly not new to interacting with girls. Unfortunalety I have never really learned how to go about girls that really matters to me.

New years eve I met a girl that totally blew me away. I had talked to her before and I know she also was/is a little attracted to me. However, even through I did my best to get her on the hook, I realised that it wasn't really working that well. In the end, when I was all too drunk, I took the chance and told her straight op that I love her. She looked at me with surprised (and very sweet eyes, and I felt that this was the woman I wanted to wake up next to every morning. However she replyed she was attracted to me, but wants to stay with her boyfriend. Then we got interrupted, and the night was over (damn!!)
It felt really good at that time just to tell her I loved her, but I am not sure if that was a good idea. I want this woman so bad (I have never had a woman I was in love with). But now she know (all too) exactly how I feel.

Have I ruined my chance (and there was a chance, I know it), by telling her how I feel?

How do I increase her actraction towards me?

In short, how do I get her?
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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LOL so you told her your undying love. You can forget about her now and all the tactics because you ruined your chances when you told her you loved her. So move on it's a lost cause.
 
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lol @ you. need to settle down pal. forget about that girl. you can't just go up to a girl saying you love her, geezus.
 
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Think about it man. If some girl that you saw like one time came up to you one night and said to you, "I love you." Wouldn't that freak you out? yes, it would.
 
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