How to get her?

[Newcomer]

Hey guys.

I am totally new in this forum, but I am certainly not new to interacting with girls. Unfortunalety I have never really learned how to go about girls that really matters to me.

New years eve I met a girl that totally blew me away. I had talked to her before and I know she also was/is a little attracted to me. However, even through I did my best to get her on the hook, I realised that it wasn't really working that well. In the end, when I was all too drunk, I took the chance and told her straight op that I love her. She looked at me with surprised (and very sweet eyes, and I felt that this was the woman I wanted to wake up next to every morning. However she replyed she was attracted to me, but wants to stay with her boyfriend. Then we got interrupted, and the night was over (damn!!)
It felt really good at that time just to tell her I loved her, but I am not sure if that was a good idea. I want this woman so bad (I have never had a woman I was in love with). But now she know (all too) exactly how I feel.

Have I ruined my chance (and there was a chance, I know it), by telling her how I feel?

How do I increase her actraction towards me?

In short, how do I get her?

 

[ryannath]

LOL so you told her your undying love. You can forget about her now and all the tactics because you ruined your chances when you told her you loved her. So move on it's a lost cause.

 

[chance_]

lol @ you. need to settle down pal. forget about that girl. you can't just go up to a girl saying you love her, geezus.

 

[ryannath]

Think about it man. If some girl that you saw like one time came up to you one night and said to you, "I love you." Wouldn't that freak you out? yes, it would.