I'm hanging out with this girl soon, gonna 'watch a movie' which will no doubt lead to some making out and what not. I've hung out with this girl in the past but she seemed kind of conservative/inexperienced as she is fairly young, and I found out a couple weeks ago she is religious (Christian, although she doesn't seem hardcore into it or anything). She is a little older now and maybe a little more experienced but still definitely a virgin so how do I escalate things and get at least a BJ out of her?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How to get her to give me a BJ?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Brians_600rr
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after some hardcore making out, put her hand near your waistline if her hand is not already there 
now if she doesnt go for ur fun stick ur almost out of luck. but if SHE DOES!! and shes holding onto it.. tell her, "kiss it" in a super suave way! and when she kisses it breathe hard! she'll see that it pleases u and if she wants to please u she'll keep going!! good luck bro
now if she doesnt go for ur fun stick ur almost out of luck. but if SHE DOES!! and shes holding onto it.. tell her, "kiss it" in a super suave way! and when she kisses it breathe hard! she'll see that it pleases u and if she wants to please u she'll keep going!! good luck broThis isn't the type of thing (in my experience) you need to talk a girl into. If she's going to do it she's going to do it, if she doesn't want to she doesn't want to. Sometimes she might need a little nudge in that direction (when you've been making out for awhile you can put her hand on your junk).
And obviously, make sure you at least have been playing with her titties for awhile before you try that. Don't just kiss her for 5 minutes and then try to go straight to head. If you've got her turned on she's going to be willing to go as far as she's comfortable with.
And obviously, make sure you at least have been playing with her titties for awhile before you try that. Don't just kiss her for 5 minutes and then try to go straight to head. If you've got her turned on she's going to be willing to go as far as she's comfortable with.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Don't worry about the religion thing. Since my divorce, all of my GFs have been Christians...and freaks in bed. They all liked rough sex. One girl wanted me to smother her with a pillow during sex, another gf once asked me to "pull her hair, cvm on her face, and call her a 'fvcking wh0re.'" I sh!t you not. Christian girls can be freaks in bed just like any other woman.
What works for me in getting what I want when making out is to make the girl cvm with my hands. It's more intimate and less subject to ASD if you can continue kissing her while you do all of this. For most girls, if they have on jeans, I have to get them most of the way off to get the right angle to reach the girl's g-spot with my middle finger.
Before you even touch her there with your hands, while kissing her, position some part of your body to be rubbing against her crotch. Women can get horny by rubbing against any part of you. Be subtle. After you get started making out and she starts to get turned on, you can dry hump her a little before you get into her pants. If you take your time with all of this, she should be soaking wet by the time you get there. Usually, I can smell a girl's pvssy in the air before I even put my hand in her pants. Getting her hot and bothered is the key to getting what you want.
What works for me in getting what I want when making out is to make the girl cvm with my hands. It's more intimate and less subject to ASD if you can continue kissing her while you do all of this. For most girls, if they have on jeans, I have to get them most of the way off to get the right angle to reach the girl's g-spot with my middle finger.
Before you even touch her there with your hands, while kissing her, position some part of your body to be rubbing against her crotch. Women can get horny by rubbing against any part of you. Be subtle. After you get started making out and she starts to get turned on, you can dry hump her a little before you get into her pants. If you take your time with all of this, she should be soaking wet by the time you get there. Usually, I can smell a girl's pvssy in the air before I even put my hand in her pants. Getting her hot and bothered is the key to getting what you want.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Just be confident with her and it will eventually work for you.
Or
Just knock her out. Or you could knock her out and skull-fvck her. It feels a lot better. Be sure to put the eye back in after you're done. It's kind of hard to explain to an awaiting father why his daughter has an eye missing.
Or
Just knock her out. Or you could knock her out and skull-fvck her. It feels a lot better. Be sure to put the eye back in after you're done. It's kind of hard to explain to an awaiting father why his daughter has an eye missing.