"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to get her to give me a BJ?

green69

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I'm hanging out with this girl soon, gonna 'watch a movie' which will no doubt lead to some making out and what not. I've hung out with this girl in the past but she seemed kind of conservative/inexperienced as she is fairly young, and I found out a couple weeks ago she is religious (Christian, although she doesn't seem hardcore into it or anything). She is a little older now and maybe a little more experienced but still definitely a virgin so how do I escalate things and get at least a BJ out of her?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Brians_600rr

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after some hardcore making out, put her hand near your waistline if her hand is not already there ;) now if she doesnt go for ur fun stick ur almost out of luck. but if SHE DOES!! and shes holding onto it.. tell her, "kiss it" in a super suave way! and when she kisses it breathe hard! she'll see that it pleases u and if she wants to please u she'll keep going!! good luck bro
 

The Forms

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This isn't the type of thing (in my experience) you need to talk a girl into. If she's going to do it she's going to do it, if she doesn't want to she doesn't want to. Sometimes she might need a little nudge in that direction (when you've been making out for awhile you can put her hand on your junk).

And obviously, make sure you at least have been playing with her titties for awhile before you try that. Don't just kiss her for 5 minutes and then try to go straight to head. If you've got her turned on she's going to be willing to go as far as she's comfortable with.
 

Bible_Belt

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Don't worry about the religion thing. Since my divorce, all of my GFs have been Christians...and freaks in bed. They all liked rough sex. One girl wanted me to smother her with a pillow during sex, another gf once asked me to "pull her hair, cvm on her face, and call her a 'fvcking wh0re.'" I sh!t you not. Christian girls can be freaks in bed just like any other woman.

What works for me in getting what I want when making out is to make the girl cvm with my hands. It's more intimate and less subject to ASD if you can continue kissing her while you do all of this. For most girls, if they have on jeans, I have to get them most of the way off to get the right angle to reach the girl's g-spot with my middle finger.

Before you even touch her there with your hands, while kissing her, position some part of your body to be rubbing against her crotch. Women can get horny by rubbing against any part of you. Be subtle. After you get started making out and she starts to get turned on, you can dry hump her a little before you get into her pants. If you take your time with all of this, she should be soaking wet by the time you get there. Usually, I can smell a girl's pvssy in the air before I even put my hand in her pants. Getting her hot and bothered is the key to getting what you want.
 

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Bump

Other suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Leporello

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Right direct her hand towards you c0ck and see how she reacts.

Further on, you could offer to go down on her, and get things moving that way.
 

New2Town

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Just be confident with her and it will eventually work for you.

Or

Just knock her out. Or you could knock her out and skull-fvck her. It feels a lot better. Be sure to put the eye back in after you're done. It's kind of hard to explain to an awaiting father why his daughter has an eye missing.
 
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