I'm hanging out with this girl soon, gonna 'watch a movie' which will no doubt lead to some making out and what not. I've hung out with this girl in the past but she seemed kind of conservative/inexperienced as she is fairly young, and I found out a couple weeks ago she is religious (Christian, although she doesn't seem hardcore into it or anything). She is a little older now and maybe a little more experienced but still definitely a virgin so how do I escalate things and get at least a BJ out of her?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How to get her to give me a BJ?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Brians_600rr
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after some hardcore making out, put her hand near your waistline if her hand is not already there 
now if she doesnt go for ur fun stick ur almost out of luck. but if SHE DOES!! and shes holding onto it.. tell her, "kiss it" in a super suave way! and when she kisses it breathe hard! she'll see that it pleases u and if she wants to please u she'll keep going!! good luck bro
now if she doesnt go for ur fun stick ur almost out of luck. but if SHE DOES!! and shes holding onto it.. tell her, "kiss it" in a super suave way! and when she kisses it breathe hard! she'll see that it pleases u and if she wants to please u she'll keep going!! good luck broThis isn't the type of thing (in my experience) you need to talk a girl into. If she's going to do it she's going to do it, if she doesn't want to she doesn't want to. Sometimes she might need a little nudge in that direction (when you've been making out for awhile you can put her hand on your junk).
And obviously, make sure you at least have been playing with her titties for awhile before you try that. Don't just kiss her for 5 minutes and then try to go straight to head. If you've got her turned on she's going to be willing to go as far as she's comfortable with.
And obviously, make sure you at least have been playing with her titties for awhile before you try that. Don't just kiss her for 5 minutes and then try to go straight to head. If you've got her turned on she's going to be willing to go as far as she's comfortable with.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Don't worry about the religion thing. Since my divorce, all of my GFs have been Christians...and freaks in bed. They all liked rough sex. One girl wanted me to smother her with a pillow during sex, another gf once asked me to "pull her hair, cvm on her face, and call her a 'fvcking wh0re.'" I sh!t you not. Christian girls can be freaks in bed just like any other woman.
What works for me in getting what I want when making out is to make the girl cvm with my hands. It's more intimate and less subject to ASD if you can continue kissing her while you do all of this. For most girls, if they have on jeans, I have to get them most of the way off to get the right angle to reach the girl's g-spot with my middle finger.
Before you even touch her there with your hands, while kissing her, position some part of your body to be rubbing against her crotch. Women can get horny by rubbing against any part of you. Be subtle. After you get started making out and she starts to get turned on, you can dry hump her a little before you get into her pants. If you take your time with all of this, she should be soaking wet by the time you get there. Usually, I can smell a girl's pvssy in the air before I even put my hand in her pants. Getting her hot and bothered is the key to getting what you want.
What works for me in getting what I want when making out is to make the girl cvm with my hands. It's more intimate and less subject to ASD if you can continue kissing her while you do all of this. For most girls, if they have on jeans, I have to get them most of the way off to get the right angle to reach the girl's g-spot with my middle finger.
Before you even touch her there with your hands, while kissing her, position some part of your body to be rubbing against her crotch. Women can get horny by rubbing against any part of you. Be subtle. After you get started making out and she starts to get turned on, you can dry hump her a little before you get into her pants. If you take your time with all of this, she should be soaking wet by the time you get there. Usually, I can smell a girl's pvssy in the air before I even put my hand in her pants. Getting her hot and bothered is the key to getting what you want.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Just be confident with her and it will eventually work for you.
Or
Just knock her out. Or you could knock her out and skull-fvck her. It feels a lot better. Be sure to put the eye back in after you're done. It's kind of hard to explain to an awaiting father why his daughter has an eye missing.
Or
Just knock her out. Or you could knock her out and skull-fvck her. It feels a lot better. Be sure to put the eye back in after you're done. It's kind of hard to explain to an awaiting father why his daughter has an eye missing.