"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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there,s this girl at my school that sits by herself
during lunch, outside in the courtyard next to
where my friends sit, and i want a plan of how to approach her. i thought of sitting next to her and saying hi my
friend bet id never go up to a girl like you and introduce myself
and i wanted to prove him wrong. So hi im so and so
whats your name. Does anyone think this will work and if not
do you have any ideas ?

(any ideas would be appreciated)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your post looks like poetry. :)

So hi im so and so.
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Always works for me. :)

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Do a backflip onto the table.
 
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Go nekkid.

Srsly.

Ok, I'll be serious for a moment. She sits by herself = red flag. She could (and probably will), end up being a boring person to hang with, but hey, i'm not you.

Your approach sound ok, a bit planned though. Try: "Hey, mind if I join you? I'm [name] by the way." She'll probably give her name. If not, C&F, negging, all that should help.

Go get em soldier.

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don't lie. Just tell her hi my name is so and so. start talking. don't do that bet she might take it the wrong way.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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