"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to get head....

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Well basically I guess my girl does not want to please me by giving me head. Or as I was thinking maybe she never gave it before and does not know how to give it to me. We are often in public places. What exactly can I say or do to take a girl from a public place like a mall and drag her somewhere isolated so I can get head?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what do you both live with your parents or something? Go get a room.

edit. no I wasn't be sarcastic. Get a room. your asking her to do something she hasn't done in a semi public place? Either go find somewhere really private and take her there or get a room. Its on you to make it happen. If you have car...well there ya go. If no car and no room, then wait for her parents to leave and go over...tahts what I used to do in high school.
 
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Well I guess you could arge that his belongs in the highschool forum but getting head is universal and not just subjected too highschool.... Yes we do live with our parents thank you very much.,
 
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