"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to get alone time with GF?

shark

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Well--we've been going out for almost 5 months now and haven't done much sexual stuff mainly because we don't get alone time. I mean, we both agreed we should start doing more but even she said it's annoying how we never get alone time and we're always with our friends or they have to be their and show up.

We don't have cars and i can't be at her house w/out her parents there and same at my house. Also--on the weekends we like to be at partys with our friends..how to incorpate some alone time IDK!?!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wow number 1. how old are u , im guessin like 13-14. second of all parents like to work, they have to in order to pay for your ****, so take her back to your place during lunch. that should be a nice quiet hour alone w/o any disruptions. and have u ever considered not following your parents rules and actually having her over or vice versa when they aint home. come on dude be creative, this is 1 of the lamest excuses for not getting any ive heard in a long time.
 

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We're in High School, ovbiously. We're juniors thats (16 yo). Yeah parents work, during the day when we are at school. We don't have the same lunch or free periods. Her parents are strict with this stuff and told the neigbors to let them know if any guys come to the house..plus after school we have homework and such.
 

Patrick124

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around ehr school ends at 2.
parents aint home till 5.
you can make it work,

or "go see a movie." and go **** in someones unlocked car. hahahahha
but u can hookup in movie theaters u know...[its a weird environment i admit.]

hell, have her over to your house, go in the basement and put a movie on. as long as ur rents arent nazis they'll trust ur jsut watching the movie and leave u alone.
but keep clothes on for the most part. no ****ing in the basement while parents r home.
 

shark

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Ok but again, we don't have cars. So to have my mom pick us up or something..doesn't that kinda ruin the mood and all? I'd say so..

and btw--im looking to do other stuff besides making out..we do that enough i need a place where that can lead to other stuff such as oral sex.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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kulowiper

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If you really would want to **** your GF then you would try to find a way for you 2 to be alone.
 

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I would risk going round to hers. Bring a DVD or video and make it visible. Sh*g her and if her parents ask, say you was watching the video (you werent)
If they quiz you on it, make it one you have seen earlier.

:D
 

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Originally posted by johnmich
I would risk going round to hers. Bring a DVD or video and make it visible. Sh*g her and if her parents ask, say you was watching the video (you werent)
If they quiz you on it, make it one you have seen earlier.

:D
Uhh dude...i dont thing shag is censored.

Anyway, if you two go to parties then whats the problem???? Go somewhere alone and get it on jackass.
 

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Most parties are usually outside of the house, nobody wants ppl in their houses where in my neigborhood. I'm going to talk to her about it and well make somtin up
 

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stop being a puss. my mom would pick the girl and i up from the movies in like 8th grade, or we would go to school dances and end up outside... Or i would get dropped off at her house to "chill" because she had more laid back parents. and we just "watched a movie."

you pickin up what im puttin down?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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