How to get a plate to back off

[MountainSlide]

Went on a date with this girl the other night and now she just messages me constantly. I don’t even feel like talking to her but there she is. Boom boom boom. “Good morning how was your sleep”, “how are you doing this morning”, “did you check out my cleavage when we were on a date”, “What kind of sex are you into”, “if you ask nice I’ll send you sexy photos”. I don’t want to ask nice. I just want her to send them over without me asking and then tell me how amazing I am, then I’ll probably bang her. Is that normal? Or am I nuts?

 

[skinnyguy]

Post a pic of her and I’ll give you my opinion

 

[Roober]

Sounds like good interest. Just give her some attention when your free, and hook up 1-2 times a week.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

String theory son.

 

[Reykhel]

Went on a date with this girl the other night and now she just messages me constantly. I don’t even feel like talking to her but there she is. Boom boom boom. “Good morning how was your sleep”, “how are you doing this morning”, “did you check out my cleavage when we were on a date”, “What kind of sex are you into”, “if you ask nice I’ll send you sexy photos”. I don’t want to ask nice. I just want her to send them over without me asking and then tell me how amazing I am, then I’ll probably bang her. Is that normal? Or am I nuts?

Yeah that's quite annoying.

You just start seeing a girl and 7 in the morning on your way to work and "Good morning" on whatsapp.......whatsapp is great but it's also a pain in the azz. I remember working two jobs and seeing two plates once a week more or less each........both highly active on whatsapp (aren't they all)....but one of them was a little more demanding / obsessive in the end......."I see you've read my texts....but you haven't answered???" Me fvcking working. Leaving second job one night......"if you got a problem with me just say it......answer me!!" .....these all started with the "good morning" and over a few months escalated.........the thing was.....I genuinely could quickly read a text but to whip out the mobil and start tapping out a response while working.....not acceptable or possible...

I had to just block one her one night while leaving work.......she rang....blocked.

I deffo see it as a red flag.

Of course you could say......you prefer speaking in person / if we text then there's no build up to when we meet/ etc

 

[lizardking82]

She;s coming in with what she feels the amount of communication between you two should be. You come in with what you THINK the right amount is and teach her that gradually, that is if you got the nerve.

But if you got her used to communicating a lot before the sex, it will be a bit harder and she will notice the change.

 

[Red Legg]

Went on a date with this girl the other night and now she just messages me constantly. I don’t even feel like talking to her but there she is. Boom boom boom. “Good morning how was your sleep”, “how are you doing this morning”, “did you check out my cleavage when we were on a date”, “What kind of sex are you into”, “if you ask nice I’ll send you sexy photos”. I don’t want to ask nice. I just want her to send them over without me asking and then tell me how amazing I am, then I’ll probably bang her. Is that normal? Or am I nuts?

If she is a 7 or above turn her into a sex toy to do with as you wish.If she is ugly use her mouth and have her lick your butt.