"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to get a phone number from a woman who speaks little English?

Deicide

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Hello, there is a waitress at a local Chinese restaraunt that I would like to get a phone number from. The only problem is that she speaks little English, and probably only knows Chinese best(which I don't know.) I'm really not sure how this would work out, but it would be interesting, and quite an accomplishment, to get a phone number from a girl like this. She's an HB 7, cute girl, and I really don't know how gaming her would be. I go out of my way to talk to her about things and I asked her during a snowy day "Did you drive to work through all this snow?" She said "Yes, it snowed a lot":crackup: It was funny, and I did laugh at her for it, but that was a good gauge that she doesn't know much about English.
There's always going to be other attractive waitresses that speak little English, but will fit this same situation, so any input or experience would be helpful. I would appreciate it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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rushing dude 123

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Hey bro I have gone out with girls where I have to actually get a google translator out to actually speak to them whilst on a date....If she has the the ability to capture a bit of what u are saying and say "yes it snowed a lot" then i think you are alright. Look at it this way if you had a hot girl come up to you who spoke little english and asked for your number, wouldn't you exchange digits? same rules apply.

Why don't u ask her and see how it goes whats so bad in trying anyway. We can't really even give you the answer to this question the only way you will find out is by asking her.

To be honest if she can't speak english that will probably increase her likelyhood in going out with you because she wants to learn. Also one more note don't
 

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I do this stuff all the time over here in japan.

just dont be serious about it at all and laugh, throw up the cell phone sign (hang loose in hawaii) and say something stupid like YOU GIVE ME. I CALL YOU. WE WATCH MOVIE. its kinda like a neghit/ c/f combo.

if shes cute and has a sense of humor, then its got a pretty good chance of working. if not, there are chinese restaraunts everywhere.
 

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i tried this once and got her number but when i called her it was hard to talk lol. didnt work out.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SharinganUser

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Ask if she has a QQ account. All Chinese have QQ. Oh you could also pick up a phrase book.

Other than that, yah, just show her your phone.
 
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